Last week my coworker said he was happy to see me that day.
He also told me that I smelled really good and asked if it was me. I sit at the front and he works in the kitchen.
I have seen him compliment other coworkers like their nails and dress but more brotherly.
He also hugged one who’s in her 40s because she had something going on with her mom but it seemed brotherly lol.
I went to give him a package and I told him I had been looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kinda flirty.
He asked if I had plans for the weekend on Friday and I told him I was hanging with my dad for Father’s Day. He said he was going to the mountains with his girlfriend and her dad and he took forever to say girlfriend lol.
After that convo we both kept saying “yeah” and “cool” and he lingered and there was a weird strong sexual vibe.
There was a bug and it scared me and he tried to tease me and fake scare me by pretending the bug was near me.
He had to train a new girl and they kept coming to my area. I saw them but was already rushing to go home. She came in the bathroom and when I came out my coworker was standing there and asked “what was that” but said it was because I was rushing. He followed me back out and told me bye.
Yesterday I was looking down and he was approaching from far away and he was like “hey Kathy” and he thought I was my other coworker who sits near me. we have similar hair and stuff and I was looking down. I looked up when he said this and laughed and he was like “day one without my contact lenses. I was about to say Kathy looks great today.” And he was talking about me.
Later he was like “hey Kathy” because he was teasing me. He knows I’m seeing someone.
Today when I got in he came over and said good morning. He was blushing hard and it got quiet again and I laughed and he asked “what?” And I told him it was awkward and he just said “ok” then looked at me then walked away. Why? Lol. He still came near me throughout the day. Why’d he say ok?
He also told me that I smelled really good and asked if it was me. I sit at the front and he works in the kitchen.
I have seen him compliment other coworkers like their nails and dress but more brotherly.
He also hugged one who’s in her 40s because she had something going on with her mom but it seemed brotherly lol.
I went to give him a package and I told him I had been looking for him and he was like “we’re you?” Kinda flirty.
He asked if I had plans for the weekend on Friday and I told him I was hanging with my dad for Father’s Day. He said he was going to the mountains with his girlfriend and her dad and he took forever to say girlfriend lol.
After that convo we both kept saying “yeah” and “cool” and he lingered and there was a weird strong sexual vibe.
There was a bug and it scared me and he tried to tease me and fake scare me by pretending the bug was near me.
He had to train a new girl and they kept coming to my area. I saw them but was already rushing to go home. She came in the bathroom and when I came out my coworker was standing there and asked “what was that” but said it was because I was rushing. He followed me back out and told me bye.
Yesterday I was looking down and he was approaching from far away and he was like “hey Kathy” and he thought I was my other coworker who sits near me. we have similar hair and stuff and I was looking down. I looked up when he said this and laughed and he was like “day one without my contact lenses. I was about to say Kathy looks great today.” And he was talking about me.
Later he was like “hey Kathy” because he was teasing me. He knows I’m seeing someone.
Today when I got in he came over and said good morning. He was blushing hard and it got quiet again and I laughed and he asked “what?” And I told him it was awkward and he just said “ok” then looked at me then walked away. Why? Lol. He still came near me throughout the day. Why’d he say ok?
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Just date him lol
Or sleep with him.
Scratch that itch.
Trust me if you don’t, you’re gonna feel like you missed out or like that could’ve been the best thing ever. That could be your soul mate. That could be your future husband. Clearly you both like eachother. I think he’s kinda not reciprocating because he’s with someone else. But you never know what the future holds.
Don’t be afraid to pursue and show what you want. Even if that’s just some action. You do you 🫵. And you said you’re seeing someone? Well clearly that’s not even there anymore if you’re thinking about your coworker all day…….
Wait so you think he likes me but you said he’s kinda not reciprocating? What do you mean by that? How could you tell if he likes me if you don’t think he’s reciprocating?
If he’s blushing at you it means he likes you.
Not reciprocating means that he’s holding back because he doesn’t want to cheat or be a cheater.
Got it. And how would I go about initiating dating or something else? Since you requested I should do those things with him. It’s harder in the workplace and plus we both said how he seems to be shying away a little and getting nervous.
How to go about it?
You don’t know?
I thought you already had a partner, 😂 how did you do it with him?
You could send a text to the coworker..
You could wink at him one day…
You could give him a little physical letter or card or note…
You could tell some other guy to tell him, but that could be risky.
You could get a friend to come to your job and tell him…
You could add him on Instagram or Facebook…
You could gift him something like extra food that you brought…
You could hint at him that you’re about to divorce your man or about to be single because your man isn’t giving you action…
You could try to be closer to him at work like stand next to him..
Try to talk to him more…
Just don’t act too inexperienced. Because dudes usually take advantage and step all over inexperienced women. Behave like you’re experienced, or like you know what you want.
Behave or at the very least “ACT” like you know what you’re doing. Act. Do some acting.
I know it can be awkward and hard. But it’s like being new at a job. It’s uncomfortable at first. But later you get used to it. However if you never give it a go. You’re gonna look like a coward to yourself, and it’s gonna bite at you for many years. Like it happened to me.
Just give it a go. It’s like when you sky dive, at first it’s scary, then you realize that it just feels like a lot of wind. It’s not as scary as it appears.
And you said that you’re in a 9-5 minimum wage job? That you’re in a dead-end job? EVEN BETTER. You can always quit or find something better later on!!
Girl, don’t even stress!! 🙃
Don’t even worry about it!! 🙃
It’s a freaking 9-5, dead-end, minimum wage job. And you’re 22. That’s where people find their future husband, or soulmate. It’s just happens. Don’t even let your other coworkers or female coworkers bully you about it, because you could easily get out of there.
you're AN ADULT. Ok?
you're AN ADULT 🫵
It’s much better in person at work. Than TINDER or any other bs dating app where you find r—pists. Good Luck 🍀.
And in general , people don’t really marry the first few people they screw. Sometimes you just screw people for experience and fun. You’re not gonna want a family and pets in your early 20’s. You’re just not. Your brain isn’t even fully developed until you’re my age at 25.
Even I at 25 don’t feel mature enough to become a mother. I just don’t have the money to raise a happy child either. But do give love a chance. Like I said, you never know what the future holds and this could be your literal soul mate. And as long as you don’t push yourself to this, it’s just gonna be a never ending mystery that’s just gonna eat at you.
Yes pursing love at work can be risky. Everything is risky. But it’s those who take risks that look like winners and badasses. Instead of those who don’t.
You’re 22. One day you’re gonna be 25. An later on you’re gonna be 30. Don’t waste that time. Live it. Fall in love. Or don’t 🤷🏻♀️
It’s your life, 🫵 and your an adult
I hope this helps you. ❤️
By the way. You know what else could happen.
3 months from now or 6 months from now. A new girl shows up at your job and this guy ends up marrying her because you never gave it a shot. Has happened to me too and I was miserable.
Or within 6 months this guy could leave and quit or move to another country or state.
And you never gave it a shot
Maybe 6 months from now it’ll be the end of the world and you never gave it a shot. You never told him how you felt.
Again; you’re a grown adult 🫵
And as a grown adult you should pursue what you desire.
Soon it’ll be Halloween, later it’ll be Christmas. Then it’ll be Easter. Time keeps moving Sis.
Anyway, if you need more advice let me know 👋
Thanks for the advice ❤️
Don't shit where you eat
This idiot is going to get #MeToo'ed.