How should I handle my boyfriend showing his friend my private photos and talking about our other activities?

[Anonymous]

We were on date night and my boyfriend mentioned he showed his lonely best friend the photos I sent I was shocked and I feel like he should have asked me before doing that.

[Anonymous]

See that’s a problem. Im assuming these are are sexier pics otherwise you wouldn’t care, so my thing is why does he want anyone else to see you that way?
It’s one thing if you posted them to social media, but if they were private, plus he told his friends about your intimacy then that’s just wrong. It’s a violation of your privacy, and disrespectful to you as his girlfriend, not just some woman he’s sleeping with. Why would he want to give his friend material to fantasize about? What about your relationship makes him so comfortable sharing those aspects of your relationship? So many questions.

[Anonymous]

well damn i would have got up from the table and absolutely left his ass. that's how you should handle it.

[Honest-Matt]

If they were private photos and he shared them, he broke your trust, he disrespected you, he does not value your confidence and he has a discipline issue. I'm sure to him it doesn't seem that serious and ultimately it's not, but it's the principle of it that's important. It's disrespectful and you should simply communicate that "those photos were for just us and I feel as though you disrespected our trust." Or something along those lines. Just be clear, plain, not confrontational, just explain that you felt disrespected and that you'd appreciate that he keep private things private.

[Truthatanycost]

You are with a man that has no boundaries, honor, respect or conscience. Every second you remain with him, sends a message that you fully accept all of the above. You do not 'handle' something like that, it's a major redflag and a big sign.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

That's messed up. Your boyfriend definitely doesn't respect you if he's willing to show private photos to others. It's your call, but I couldn't be with a girl that didn't respect my feelings.

[mommymommymommy]

This is why you should never send those. ESPECIALLY NUDES

Guys, this is why you NEVER ASK FOR NUDES. If you can't respect your lady, DONT ASK FOR THEM

[Asker]

lingerie not nudes

[mommymommymommy]

Doesn't matter. nudes, lingerie (bras that make it look like your nude), whatever the fuck it is. YOU DONT SEND PICS

[jahaims]

He doesn't respect you

[jjj101010]

I am assuming these photos are explicit?

[Asker]

lingerie

[jjj101010]

Is ur face in them?

[slatyb]

Dump him.