Is he just waiting... to use me?

Question

long story short , my guy best friend brung up my body count (0) and offered me sex. his reasoning behind it was , if i need to experience life and more situations like other people our age (22&23) he would teach me...

i asked him did he like me (because he literally just offered to advance w me in the bedroom) he said "as a friend" ...

why offer me your body if you don't view me as your person? is this normal? is this man my friend or did he just tell me he looks as me as meat basically?

RyanK9b · Accepted Answer

Guys can bang mostly everything without feelings. Thats our nature, what he doesn't know is that females need those steps in her brain (an idea, Idealization, etc.)

One I can be say with certainty. Most of your guy friends would bang u if giving the chance.

You should keep your virginity. That's something rare these days. In case of meeting an high value guy this would be the extreme bonus card for you.

As a female you don't need the same experience as other girls. Or experience in that matter at all.

Your "friend" would probably bang u and u would develop feelings. Then u would be attached to him bc of this intimacy and would do everything for him. Thats were the using you part comes.
He would just use u and u would be sooner or later devastated by that exp. That would change your world view negatively and could make u less bonding to a other guy.

Drumlin2001 · Accepted Answer

He's chancing his arm. Don't feel presured to doing anything you don't want to.
Sex dosen't have to have a deep emotional connection, it can just be adults having fun. He's not using you, He's being honest. He only wants a sexual relationship with you, nothing more

MementoMori777 · Answer

yes, no friend offers another friend sex, if he wanted to be a good friend he would tell you to not be rushed and that it would come at its own time but he's trying to persuade you to having sex with him "for your learning experience" you know, poor little soul isn't thinking of him at all, his full intentions of putting his penis inside you is for you, he's doing you the favor (sarcasm) im sure you get what im trying to say lol

lildkman1090 · Answer

Don’t do it save yourself ok there is no reason for you to rush that first time may not seem it but it’s going to be special and you will never forget it ok

boggboss · Answer

As your person are u living in the past lol people end up having sex from being horny and nothing to do with truly liking the other person these days

honestanswersonly_ · Answer

🤦🏻 He tried to be smooth and be the nice guy. A for effort. Tbh tho he sounds like a duech bag that will say whatever he needs to to get laid. He dosent respect you. He thinks your dumb. And dirty.