PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND THIS, WHY DO BOYS DO THIS? EMERGENCY😂🫶🏻🥳🥳?

[claudia32]

There was a guy who I know and he texting me every day like “good morning” and asked me how I am, but I never initiated the conversations because I felt so comfortable and then he had stopped for three days and today earlier I texted him and he responded right away like within one hour, what does this mean? Do u think he was waiting for a text from me?

[glennos89]

If he likes you he would definitely appreciate a text from you yes. Don't let him be the one texting first all the time because then you will risk losing him. You both should text first sometimes of you like eachother. Its called putting effort into it😇🤷‍♂️

[claudia32]

Do u think he still likes me?

[claudia32]

Or u think he was happy or waited for a text from me?

[glennos89]

He will still like you. I think he actually was waiting for your text message tbh

[claudia32]

Yeah probably

[claudia32]

I was just surprised he texted me quick back

[claudia32]

And also he wanted to see also maybe if I would care or not but I think three days was enough with not talking lol and then I texted him

[claudia32]

I was lowkey waiting for him but I’m glad I made the move

[glennos89]

If you are not putting in some effort yourself, guaranteed you will lose a guy sooner or later. A lot of guys are already struggling with the fact that males have to put in all the effort to find a girlfriend etc.
If she is not putting any effort in it herself then guys rather choose to move on instead of investing energie and time in it.

Guys wanne feel wanted/needed in their relationship. Guys need to know that you want his attention! If you dont show interest he will move on most likely.

You did a good job by texting him! He probably was waiting for it. Just let him know you want his attention from time to time! He needs that confirmation from you in order to make him feel happy 😇

[Massageman]

Sound like he's looking for some kind of "security"/sense of worth provided by your response (s). But I'm not the psychologist in our household, so - - - - - - -

[claudia32]

Wht? U think he was looking to see if I was interested back or wym?

[Massageman]

Some people have very fragile egos. If others don't validate- or at least show some sort of interest in what they do - life is miserable for these people. I have no idea of the temperament of this guy. Maybe he loves, you from afar. Maybe he'd like to know you. Maybe he just needs someone to boost his ego by just answering him.