Should men be allowed to tell a woman they are not attractive if they are not attractive themselves?

[Laura14]

men shouldn't make comments like that anyway but definitely not if they are ugly as well

[Boomchakalaca]

Yes they can hav an opinion of u but it wouldn't always fall true. As everyone holds a certain type and standard. To be honest if a guy called me ugly and looked like a goofy goober i think id just laugh in his face 🫵🏼😀

[Sjoerd85]

Finding someone attractive or not is purely a subjective matter. It is different from person to person. So yes, any guy has full right to tell you he doesn't find you attractive, also if this guy is not attractive himself in your opinion.

[BobLouis]

So by your logic unattractive men are second class citizens who have no rights to speak their mind freely. Why? Because you don't take the time to go to the gym and look pretty they are not allowed to tell you don't look good?

[BobLouis]

You can call them out on bullshit, but they don't have that right?

[Laura14]

the only person who can tell me i am ugly is the guy i am dating at the time one houre before i dump him the rest of the world can fuck themselves

[Anonymous]

Yes. Ugly people can always believe other people are ugly too. The question isn't about themselves.

[ShesRad80]

nobody should be saying that to anyone but it happens all the time sadly

[SpyderMurpph]

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[BlackJeep]

They are allowed to say that they aren't attracted to a woman but attraction is subjective. It doesn't mean the woman isn't attractive it just means Mr Ugly isn't attracted to her

[inhua]

freedom of speech

it's not about the messenger. it's about the message

[gothbxtch]

no one should be telling anyone they’re not attractive

[jahaims]

Are you allowed to have opinions on things you aren't? You aren't a man, so by your logic you shouldn't be allowed to have an opinion about a man.

[Anonymous]

Of course. If it's true then it's just a fact, and people are allowed to state facts regardless of how they themselves look.

[Laura14]

ok so your are extremely stupid and because i think that its a fact and i can say it.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure you can say it, but you have nothing to base it on other than you being butt hurt and lashing out.

[In_Trance]

Must be something you're doing because this doesn't happen to everyone

[Laura14]

it doesn't happen to me i just keep seeing it happen to other women and it makes me mad

[LiamJHayden]

Anyone can have an opinion, but it is rude to give one unsolicited.

[JesseP1nk]

But who decides if a man is ugly or not? That all thing is so subjective

[Billlewis]

That sounds good to me, but that's just me.