What are physically unattractive men supposed to do if women don't find them attractive?

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Glyn54 · Accepted Answer

In my experience, being physically attreactive is an advantage. being confident in yourself is a bigger advantage. Women seem to be attracted to confident men who are sure of themselves, know what and who they want. I always thought I was an ugly duckling and so I was shy around women and showed my lack of self confidence and then I had no luck with women and that reinfoirced my feelings of self doubt.
tehn I had a relationship with a lady who loved me and lusted after me and who told me so. So I bcame self confident. Then I noticed that OTHER women suddenly became more attracted to me and flirted with me. That increased my self condfidence more.
Then I've had lots of women tell me that I look much younger than my 69 years and that I'm good looking so now I don't think of myself as an ugly duckling.
I can't woo every woman I'd like to - some turn me down. In some cases I say the wrong thing (for them) and they think I'm weird but if I say the same thing to another woman she gets more attracted to me so I no longer worry about it. If a woman rejects me at the start then probably I would not find her to my liking later anyway so I've lost nothing (sometimes they are really good looking though and that annoys me if they reject me).
In the end, it's not really what you look like, it's how you treat them an what you say to them that makes them attracted to you.

DiegoO · Accepted Answer

Health, power, money and status creates the balance AND been respectful to them.

When you don't have the health, the power, the money and the status, been respectful is not good enough. There is more into it. Natural selection at best.

You can always pay a prostitute if you don't meet the average women criteria. If you want to be loved by a woman, that's something out of your control.

In reality you don't need anyone to feel complete, and not procreating more child's, shouldn't be a concern. Earth is overpopulated.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Regardless of what physical features you are born with, the best we can do is to groom ourselves, wear what fits us not only in terms of fitting our body types but also our style, and be confident that you take good care of your appearance and have a good disposition and you will attract a good partner.

You don't have to get plastic surgery or anything tbh. But definitely, take care of your hair, beard, smell good etc. I was instantly drawn to my boyfriend when I first met him, and he always looked attractive to me because he always looked very well-maintained, and lo and behold, he does indeed have a whole hair routine and he shaves his facial hair regularly, always smells really good and those things truly add up.

Alli39 · Accepted Answer

Take care of your body, practice good hygiene, learn to be polite, kind, and good-natured (and confident!). In terms of finding a long-term relationship, looks for either party matter way less then being a supportive person who's enjoyable to be around.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You should go to the mall, sit in a main corridor, and watch the couples stroll by. Look at their attractiveness. Then tell yourself that the problem is not how you look. You will see plenty of unattractive couples strolling hand in hand.

Avicenna · Answer

Make as much money as they can. There will be options then.

coachTanthony · Answer

It's called Thailand and a few hundred bucks.

DermalPunch · Answer

A) Change your mindset.

Men don't need to look good to be attractive, unlike women so yu have an edge.

B) Find your personal style

C) take care of your skin

D) cultivate your personality

E) work out.

F) be positive and radiate it

G) be kind but don't let a girl disrespect you because she's hot.

Everyone can be attractive.

Moirine · Answer

My partner revealed it to me that he didn't have it easy in high school as that goes for a lot of teens. Never got to experience anything his friends did. Never touched a bum, breast or did anything teens do but tell you what,  HE'S THE SMARTEST, FUNNIEST AND MOST ATTRACTIVE PERSON I KNOW!  If you're attracted to the mind most men are attractive!

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Develop an actually good, clean, charming sense of humor, man. Seriously; funny dudes fuck. If you know how to make women laugh, they'll be so much more attracted to you than if you're a physically sexy man.

Now... if you're both a hottie and you know how to make people laugh, most women probably won't even have the confidence to want to mess with you.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Create a movement forcing women to find them attractive. 😂

Remember:

Big is beautiful for men too and if body hair is natural on women and should be celebrated, then so should baldness, because that's natural too.

In all seriousness though, improve oneself, like lift weights, improve social skills and above all else, be a decent human being.

Lionman95 · Answer

Try to figure out reasons why that´s so. Because there has to be something that turns women off. Many guys are not physically attractive but it´s what they do that gets them a woman and that works the way round, too.

Maybe it´s a habit or a choice of clothes that turns women off. I think guys should try to work on themselves and maybe also ask others for help to figure out what´s the problem.

Sonorous · Answer

Honestly just do whatever these guys did:

Drumlin2001 · Answer

How ugly? I mean most things can be overlooked. You can work on being at healthy and fit as possible, take care of physical appearance (grooming, clothes). Get out in the world and expand your knowledge/experience. Learn to hold a conversation, make a joke, listen.

Exterminatore · Answer

Settle for a woman in your league or remain single.

If you were a woman I’d tell you to become a feminist, which Is just a euphemism for 300 pound man hating lesbian. They hate men because all they can get is 300 pound women, but think they’re entitled to Brad Pitt.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Do everything you can to present yourself well physically- smelling good, having good personal hygiene, wearing good clothes, having a cool hairstyle, showing off your good features (for example if you have nice arms)

and personality wise, just being easy to get along with and fun! Having a good sense of humour and being kind can go along way and is attractive in a guy or a girl.
just make the most of yourself really.

Meropatrick · Answer

Being a man u have a lot of room for improvement if u dont Look good. Make ur bank account Look good, ur house Look good, ur car. I mean u should bring Something to the table if its not looks. Go to the gym build a strong sexy body. If u r tall this is a plus

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I am a physically unattractive man. And I can't remember the last time a woman told me I was good looking. But I have never had an issue dating.

OddBeMe · Answer

Women have incredibly varying degrees of what they find attractive. Remember they weren’t/aren’t into porn as much as us.

So you may be the sort some chicks find hot because you remind them of their daddy. Or have some subconscious link to their childhood.

Belgie · Answer

Learn to be attractive in more than just physical ways. Learn how to make her laugh, feel safe and protected, cared for, be clean and hygienic. Smell nice. That kind of thing.

Screenwriter · Answer

The same thing physically unattractive women do if men don't find them attractive. Wait until someone discovers if they like the person better than the wrapper.

Half the time a pretty wrapper disguises a less than attractive person.

papiC21 · Answer

Hit the gym, hit the gym more, be successful, be funny

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

If you’re under the impression men have to be attractive to get with women, you’re severely mistaken. Looks don’t even mean half to women what they do to men. All you need is a likable personality and having your shit together. That is mostly what women are attracted to.

Jltakk · Answer

As the "funny guy" in my circle, don't just be funny. Women couldn't see me as anything more intimate than just the "funny guy". Develop a skill, dig rabbit holes. You'll have incredible topics and stories to tell a lucky girl. This is far more productive.

UnWokeDude_OrNot · Answer

There is always somebody out there. I would suggest to work on your personality. It is 70% for yourself and 30% for women. There are women youtubers who guide guys in such matters. Find them.

sheenagwapa · Answer

women are not that picky maybe yoy just have not founf her

Anonymous · Answer

There is someone for everyone. You find someone that is equally just as unattractive as you are. Stop going for 7s or 8s if you're a 3 or 4. Go for the 3 or 4.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sense of humour and charisma. You don't need much else.

shades777 · Answer

everyone is attractive to someone, a sportscar isn't attractive to a family man than a suv, your probably not in front of the right audience or perhaps you need a few tweaks, if your happy how you are then go do the things you like

Annie_LevelUP_ADC · Answer

I'm thinking gym and personality. And a lot of money if you want the gold diggers too.

Fireguy17 · Answer

then go and find someone that does find you attractive. No one ever said finding the right person is easy.

Anonymous · Answer

Just look at all the unattractive men everywhere who have women, many times very attractive women.

Reem12345reem · Answer

get a glow up , hair , clear skin , hygiene , good clothes , and be funny and confident

jeffend888 · Answer

Make money and have an assertive personality.

Subflics · Answer

Stop looking for a relationship. Work on yourself, be the happiest, healthiest you can be!

gothbxtch · Answer

there are people who will find you attractive, guaranteed. you are not “unattractive”. attractiveness is subjective.

bolverk · Answer

Just live our best lives as we've always done, because through out history the majority of men have found a partner.

Billlewis · Answer

Become a non sexual sugar daddy or pay pig, etc.

dolemite58 · Answer

chase success in ur career and start going to the gym

LiamJHayden · Answer

Do not despair. Personality, talent, and interests are just as important, maybe more so, to a lot of women out there.

grega239 · Answer

Enjoy life without women. Its easy after a few years

zagor · Answer

What kind of women is that unattractive man going for?

Anonymous · Answer

Use subliminal audio to do a glow up. It might take over 6 months though.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Give up on sex and devote your life to good works. Like Mother Theresa.

DrKrieger · Answer

Focus on yourself and stop chasing girls eventually you will find one who chases you

turnpost · Answer

Date Single Moms. Go to a third world country Open marriage

jahaims · Answer

Lower your standards and find other things to offer

Vickysplash_ · Answer

Go for girls who like personality over looks

rm_llort · Answer

ROBOT9001 on 4chan and if even they don't accept you, you can go femboy and get a faggot instead.

normandi · Answer

There is always pay for sex --- it is cheaper and more fun

rienna888 · Answer

Have lots of money

Anonymous · Answer

Lower your standards. If you're ugly, focus on the ugly people.

inhua · Answer

most commit suicide unfortunately

4ngelic · Answer

glow up or lower your standards

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Nothing. It's over.

slatyb · Answer

How many women do you great by name?

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Lose all hope like I have

Anonymous · Answer

give up and be an incel

EaterPeter · Answer

Work hard smart and make tons money work out

DextroShade · Answer

Get money, learn game.

Rangers · Answer

Accept their fate

Anonymous · Answer

Not copulate, simple really

Anonymous · Answer

Hit the gym

Vegasrunner · Answer

Make money

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