Why would a guy complain about everything in his life?

[cth2188]

Is this a toxic trait or what? Or someone who only contacts you to rant and complain?

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+1 y

Yeah my nerves too bad for complaining and I hate negative people

[ChiTown33]

If she allows it. I used to know this girl who liked me and she let me rant. One Day I guess she didn't feel like hearing it and she gave it right back to me with both barrels. Really caught me off guard. But after that I wised up. I could take her good nature for granted like that. I had no right to.

In short we teach people how to treat us. Don't let anybody treat you like a doormat. And don't take anybody's good nature for granted.

[Fireguy17]

Some people would not be happy if you hung them with a new rope.
I never liked negative people.
Way too much drama, nothing good ever happens.
It gets old quickly.
You may want to move on, as rarely are they happy.

[SnowedIn]

I wouldn't call it toxic per se but some people are just negative and whiners. But it can be toxic and, yeah, get them out of your life.

[Sparkie460]

Instead of complaining about it he should spend that time to make it better. Complaining solves nothing.

[exitseven]

Maybe his life rally does suck. There has been a lot of that going around during the last 2 or 3 years

[cth2188]

And what does that have to do with me? He should see a therapist I'm not a therapist nor want to be around negativity