My boyfriend always complains?

[Anonymous]

What I mean is he always complains whenever he buys me anything or when we go anywhere. He has a full time job making good money but he makes me feel bad when we go out... Like this week he dropped over 500 dollars on some things he wanted but complains when he buys me an 8 dollar hamburger meal.. he never wants to do anything except get fast food and then go straight home.. to do nothing... last February around valentines day we walked past the rings and jewelry at the store (there was jewelry for like 50 dollars) and he said I wish I could get you something like that, then kept walking I just stayed quiet... then he spent 2000 dollars on computer parts and video games the next week... am I wrong for feeling a little unimportant or like a burden to him?

[goddess87]

Tell him the next time he wants to have sex that you vagina can't afford the miles. Ha No seriously, He sounds assy and cheap. That's a common complaint I see on here. I would find someone who is more appreciative. It would be different if you were hassling him for money and stuff, but he's not even acting like a decent boyfriend.

[Asker]

Right? It seems like all the guys I've dated have been that way... :/

[goddess87]

There's decent men out there trust me. Best way to test is see if they pay for dates. If they are cheap and ask or expect you to pay, don't go out with them again. Cheapos tend to stay cheap

[Asker]

Yep. I've paid for dinners for us before he didn't complain then -_- and if I say I will pay he never says "no you dont have too" sometimes I just test to see but every time he will let me pay.

[depeche2015]

my boyfriend does the same except he has a job but hasn't bought me anything and we been together for 3 years

[Asker]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years too! He will buy me things but say "you better like it cause it costed me money" or something like that so I really don't want him to buy me things if it has to be like that.

[Machiavelli]

He's a selfish asshole, leave and go get a job, stop depending on me.

[DennyBCNDK]

your boyfriend sounds like a douche... I'd do/buy anything just to make her smile and feel appreciated.. maybe that's just me..

[Asker]

That's the way it should be... a guy should want to do things to make his girlfriend smile not even things that cost money. Just have a picnic, but he usually plays video games the whole time I'm over

[DennyBCNDK]

sounds like he should date his videogame and let some other guy appreciate and you..

[Asker]

Yep... I do love him though but I just wish things could be different...

[DennyBCNDK]

talk with him about.. a relationship is a 2 person commitment.. if he doesn't start treating you better. then i suggest you leave him.. yes it will hurt, but you will get over him. and you will find a man that deserves you and knows how to treat you..

[Asker]

Thank you for your help!

[DennyBCNDK]

you're welcome.. best of luck to you..

[Reddwolf]

he doesn't appreciate you if he drops that kind of money and none of it on you then leave his ass

[Asker]

I thought so too. I dont even ask for things I just figure a boyfriend woyld like to get his girlfriend things every now and then.

[Reddwolf]

if it was me dating you and I had that kind of money I'd buy you things all of the time

[Asker]

Thanks :) lol good to know there are guys out there who like to do nice things for their gfs without making her feel bad.

[Whaaaaa]

Sounds like a little bitch

[Asker]

I know right? he's never complaining when he wants sex though.