Do men eventually develop feelings for their sidechicks?

[Anonymous]

I guess what I'm asking is, is it possible for a man to have sex with a woman over and over again without eventually falling for her or loving her?

[MrOracle]

"Do men eventually develop feelings for their sidechicks?"

Rarely.

"I guess what I'm asking is, is it possible for a man to have sex with a woman over and over again without eventually falling for her or loving her?"

Absolutely! No question! In fact, it's by far the norm if the guy didn't have romantic feelings right from the start!

Men are not women. Most women will fall in love with a guy if she has sex with him regularly, even if she didn't intend to and doesn't want to. But most men DO NOT WORK THAT WAY. Men fall in love very early on after being around a girl (at least, the seed of love forms very quickly), or they don't. If that seed does not form at the very beginning, IT NEVER WILL. And while sex is one of the things that will help a seed grow (like water and sunshine), if there is no seed, you can give all the water and sunshine you want, but the ground is just bare, dead dirt, and always will be.

The purpose of a side chick is to provide meaningless casual sex. That's it. Nothing more. Nada. Nyet. If that isn't enough for you, then you have no business being in that position.

[Losalt]

While it *can* happen it's honestly not that realistic...
Women are more likely to develop feelings from sex because (among other things) our sperm contains hormones intended to kickstart them in you.
The equivalent for women towards men are more present during pregnancies.
But it's just in general complicated.
And you can't take anything for granted.
(Getting pregnant to try to get his attention is a *bad* idea)

[Anonymous]

No, and if that woman thinks she’s gonna get a relationship from that man, she’s watched too many romcoms and wishful thinking like crazy. Listen to men when they tell you they don’t want more, ladies!

[Jazzy54]

Honestly, no. It’s just fun for him. No strings attached.

[Alex-Snow]

I'm still new to sex (not a virgin but kinda new) I have not had a sidechick but it kinda sounds like fun. I think I would develop feelings. Afterall we are getting naked together and sharing tons of great orgasms. Is this happening to you? How is the sex with him... I'm still in the learning mode so to speak.

[Anonymous]

Usually not. Because in my mind it’s like ok how many other dudes has she done this w. So no she’s just some fun on the side, a change from the usual. To me I know that if she’s willing to be a side chick chances are she wants more, so she’s going to do more sexually if I ask, thinking that it’ll get her a permanent spot in my bed. Which it won’t but I won’t tell her.

[MikeTheBartender]

I do. But not with everyone, it really depends on the sex etc. by the way I'm talking about when dating multiple women not cheating.

[Asker]

They're not sidechicks then. They're just potentials.

[Ben487]

absolutely not. A side chick just gets a guy off when he needs too. Overtime he will grow bored of his side chick and get a new one. That is the way that works.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sex and love have nothing to do with one another for men.

[Pyrofox]

It happens but its like do you wanna be known as a rebound XD.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nope. The side piece is never anything more than stress relief

[Anonymous]

That's wishful thinking in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Trashy situation