Was I right to block a guy who used me and ignored me?

[Anonymous]

This guy was texting me for over a month giving me high hopes of a relationship with him planning things etc.
but when I decided to give in and do the deed with him he finished with me and ghosted me.
As much as I begged and pleaded with him.
I just had to block him as I felt crap and for my mental health just wanted him gone if he’s gunna ignore my feelings and everything

[ShesRad80]

yes you were right to protect yourself by blocking that turd

[inhua]

this wouldn't have happened if you didn't let the Halo Effect influence you

[Asker]

Well I thought him hearing about how I was used before by someone he would understand and be patient with me

[inhua]

why would a guy be patient with you when previous guys weren't patient with you? if you laid out the rules from the beginning with the very first guy, you would've solved 99% of your problems

guys like consistent rules, not flaky rules that change because of the girl's feelings.

most girls make the mistake early on of hooking up the hot guys who never wanted to commit in the first place and then suddenly every other subsequent guy has to jump through hoops by being patient and taking the girl out on dates etc. just to get what the first guy got for free?

no candidate would like it if only that candidate themselves needed to have work experience to apply for a job whereas other candidates do not need work experience

[Anonymous]

next time keep your legs closed then this wouldn't happen