Did I do something wrong? Why did he block me?

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CallMeDave · Accepted Answer

Based on what you shared, I don't really understand why he blocked you but I might understand why he stopped communicating.

I think he was interested in something sexual with you and interpreted (correctly I think) your very short replies and avoiding answering his questions to mean that you were not interested in sex with him. If his primary interest was sex, then when it seemed that he wasn't going to get that with you he lost interest.

Since it sounds like you only wanted to be friends, I don't think you did anything wrong. You communicated (through your limited communication in response to his texts) that your goal and his were not the same and so he moved on. I don't really understand why he blocked you but some people seem to block quickly when they've decided they aren't interested in communicating with someone any more even if that person has done nothing wrong and isn't likely to harass them.

Honestly I don't think you should worry about it too much because it doesn't seem like you and he were compatible.

You wanted friendship and I think he just wanted sex and so that wasn't going to work.

shane203 · Accepted Answer

their not enuff contexts like were you two just joking then you asked relationship stuff cuz guys dont pick up hints like that. Also he might have a girlfriend and blocked you for refrencing twoard a relationship. he maybe scared and likes you so he just did. Lastly he could just not like the idea of you as a partner and just wanted a freind but blocked you cause you brought up relationship stuff. Honestly we need more contects for a better answer but those are the possibiltites i could think of.

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

I've learned that people will block people for seemingly no reason at all. There doesn't even have to be a legitimate reason for it (or at least not one that makes logical sense). People are just weird.

It sounds like he was trying to imply he was interested in you, but when you replied "that's cool lol", he took it as you being uninterested. Some guys are ultra sensitive and get really butthurt over that, so that may be his reasoning for blocking you.

I wouldn't worry about it. If that's all it takes for him to get upset with you, you probably dodged a bullet.

It could also be that he thinks you rejected his advance and is embarrassed as well.

DorkVader · Accepted Answer

You didn't exactly give him much to work with. He asked you what you like and you said I don't know. He shared his example and you said cool. You need to share more of yourself because this shows a definite lack of interest to me.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I think you didn't have anything to say you were not Interested in the Convo. If you didn't like that could have change the topic where you both found intresting
It irritates a person if he is putting effort to know you and you finish without a definitive answer looks like you don't have interest and other person is making fool of himself

Dr3amPho3nix · Answer

We are all going to none intentionally hurt people at some point and it's all down to how the other person handles the situation. I can't say that you have hurt him but he could be pissed off with you showing little to no interest but from what you have said to others he already knew that you only want him as a friend?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i once talked to this girl in art class. she was hot but all she did was laugh. i don't think she ever said a word to me. if you can't get to know someone a little then you can't even be friends

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Look at your texts.. it doesn't seem like you interesting in talking to him. I know you didn't mean that but he might felt that way

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't think you did anything wrong to make him upset , i believe he just got issues he needs to sort and he needs to respect that we are all under quarantine and life for 80% of the United States is serious matter , people are dying everyday and the cases of COVID-19 is slowing down but we don't know what this will lead to?

DavidDong · Answer

'What does it matter'
Well tbh the vibe from it felt lame ngl
Dont say what's theirs just say what yours is and work with them to find out, while as a guy I like direct, that's if I'm going to the girl and they respond direct.
If they like me then it turns me off, sadly

Countrywildmangirl · Answer

R u sure he block u  Because I'm having close the exact same situation where this guy won't talk to me but would look at my msgs

Noodle_fan · Answer

If you want honest opinion , your reply didn't show any enthusiasm , so he would assume you are not interested with him , he decided to move on.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Where is the conversation? He's talking to the wall

Nerdvana · Answer

He's interested in you and you only see him as a friend. He's moving on. Nothing wrong with that. Don't take it personal.

Aaron_Stone · Answer

@PondyPand Totally agree with you. she didn't even tried to talk properly 🤦‍♂

Anonymous · Answer

seems like he's just done. Probably nothing you guys talked about, but something was on his mind and he decided to puss out and block you rather than nut up and talk about it.

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ · Answer

This isn't a conversation. This is him being engaging and you borring as hell. You wrote a total of 7 words in 3 replies!!! I'm not even gonna count how many he did. What I'm getting at here is that you put him to sleep. Didn't seem interested, at all. You had absolutely nothing to say. This is not a conversation, its a one way street.

msc545 · Answer

Maybe he was tired of reading your sparse answers? I know I would have been.

Levin · Answer

He perceived that as non-interest à la rejection. Horny old toad wanted to get his dick wet!

CubsterShura · Answer

He realized he can't get into your pants so he left.

DizzyDesii · Answer

So his true colors finally came out. He just wanted to get laid ig 🤦‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh you didn't really open yourself up you need to at the very least talk lol.

He probably isn't worth chasing if he blocked you over that bit one word relays aren't the way to go to show interest in someone.

If you're interested in someone at the very least reply with a few words lol

TallAnon · Answer

If a guy asks about your turn ons, he wants to fuck. You responded with something that sounds like "Not interested", so he knew he wasn't getting any and quit.

Nadim171 · Answer

Because: he's a crazy asshole. You did nothing wrong.

Lynx122 · Answer

Probably cause you only responded 3 words or less to anything he said. So he got bored or thought you didn't like him.

Laggy · Answer

Well the short replies speak for itself lol he ain't getting anywhere. He's looking for a hookup

Gedaria · Answer

There are two on here that blocked me. Haven't a clue why. I would sooner they come up front and they don't like what I've said...

Anonymous · Answer

"I thought that he was a cool guy". Yeah. Totally his fault for engaging in conversation.

You were dismissive, so he dismissed you. End of subject. Just judging from this convo, you're really not worth his time.

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

You were being boring, and it seems you werent uncomfortable because in that case the responses are justified but since I don't think this is the case you were just being dry.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

he might have wanted to be more than just... FRIENDZONED...

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Sounds like he felt you were being rude or making s pass at him

rose86466 · Answer

You were annoying him because you don't have interest in this conversation. That's why he blocked you.

Shamalien · Answer

Lol i mean ur giving him short ass responses, u sound un interested, I would have stopped texting u as well

Idontevenunderstandh · Answer

If you like him then express it, take the step, show him you care, any attention you give will be instantly accepted by most guys, ask him if he wants to go into town with you or something yk.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

This is your boyfriend?

Vince45 · Answer

Um hey dm me i got the straight up answer

fonduegirl · Answer

yeah you played the passive card without realising.

lofii · Answer

That's what short response will get you

Kezzz · Answer

Maybe he saw he saw you as more than a good friend? It explains why he was so interesting in knowing your personality and all that.

Anonymous · Answer

Because you only wanted him because he was white and how he looked. He wants to be loved from his personality not from the color of his skin and the whiter he is the more attractive you'll think he is. He is not a treat

COMMODOREII · Answer

Im not sure why he blocked you. It doesn't seem like you did anything wrong.

Qonyboi · Answer

I don't know, maybe he felt like you were being short with him. Guys like communication skills and you don't really exhibit that in this photo.

chriscdi · Answer

because of the short distant replies

Benjr134 · Answer

He’s attracted to you and feels embarrassed that you didn’t take his question seriously. You did nothing wrong.

PondyPand · Answer

You sound boring to fuck to talk to.

OddBeMe · Answer

Did he think you we’re talking about him? “Chill out” or something?

the_bornloser · Answer

If someone blocks you on text, it's time to block him from your life

GayLoner · Answer

Why did he block you? I don't know is it possible that your replys are half assed and come across as uninterested?

888theGreat · Answer

Is this the guy that came to your house?

Daniel_Dano · Answer

Maybe you are boring as someone else here also stated

anmari2001 · Answer

Guys in this comment section said it all

LilElph · Answer

No you didn't do anything wrong

Nickel_Slam · Answer

He realized you were not going to do as he wanted. So he got mad.

AstroBebop · Answer

You did nothing wrong he's a weirdo😂

Ripper_E · Answer

Who is that?

MountAverage · Answer

Well he obviously was trying to hook up with you.

Luukku · Answer

Why do you share this. Is private...

MannySimms · Answer

Considering current events, why care?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I answered on the other question.

Smirnoff23 · Answer

Seems he is scared to say what he thinks

Nachowedgie · Answer

You were being extremely boring

Hleny23 · Answer

Meybe you was too fast on him

barkal83 · Answer

I don't know

Jude_Wills · Answer

No idea

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