I made the first step as a girl? What do you guys think?

[Donimelo]

Hello everyone! There is a guy I like ( he is a virgo man), we used to work in the same place. But unfortunatelly I quit the job last week. But we added each other on instagram. When I was with him He was teasing me and saying flirtious stuff to me and I was kinda playing cool ( because of my last relationships I didn't want to be seem so eager to be with him). So i decided to text him and 2 days ago I texted him and he answered me in few seconds! I dont know if thats a good sign or something normal 🤣. I asked him to go out on Sunday but he told me he is working that day ( I forgot they are also working on weekends) i asked him what about next week and he told me that day seems off now and we can talk on weekday. Do you guys think he will approach me? Is it ok if a girl texts first?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I think its great you made the first move and more girls should do it. Based on what you are saying, he sounds interested so that bodes well for you too. Good luck in planning that date and for any future you two may have.

[Donimelo]

Thank you so much!!! 🤍🙏

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe you know a guy likes you if he is willing to talk to you, not if he is willing to meet you for dates since guys might have other motives for that, see if he is willing to dialogue with you between dates and don’t push too hard, cause no guy is stupid enough to ignore a girl he likes because she did not chase hard enough. I know girls that lost guys who liked them by trying to hard to initiate things.

[Billlewis]

Of course it's okay for a woman to make the first move, and I hope you have a fantastic relationship with him!

[Donimelo]

Thank you soo much!!! Do you think he will ever approach me? And is it a good sign he answered my texts in few seconds? Thank you!

[Billlewis]

I think there's definitely a good possibility. You might want to consider telling him that you've got another guy who's been asking you if he can go out with you, just to tease him a little bit:)

[DubiousIntentions]

Why should he approach you when you made the initial move? Finish what you started and be the one to follow up. There is nothing wrong with that and it will make him feel that you aren't just jerking him around.

[Donimelo]

@DubiousIntentions I dont want to be seem like Im putting pressure on him to meet with me thats why. Kinda afraid to make him scared :/

[SnowedIn]

Yes you can approach/text first.

And, don't wait for him. Just set something up with him.

[RealMarek]

No need to overthink this. He replied quickly and wants to talk with you on his day off, and that’s a good sign.

[Anonymous]

Something that will for all time be in the extreme minority for women

[jahaims]

You're an adult now. Stop the astrology

[Donimelo]

There are a lot of adults still into astrology sir. I won't thank you 😊🤍

[jahaims]

There are adults into kids, too. That doesn't make it okay.

[Donimelo]

Lol we are not hurting anyone.