Did I come off very accusatory?

[hsshannah96]

When I asked why I actually was wondering why… my friend texted with me and she thinks I’m jumping to conclusions and accusing him. I hate when guys say one thing and do the opposite. I liked this guy cause his profile said he deleted social media. I found out that his contact in my phone linked to my Snapchat acct and he has Snapchat, a form of social media. The texts that ensue: the fun part is this is my calm way of handling this.

[SnowedIn]

Actually yes you did.

When you wrote "Honesty is very important to me" you may have made what you thought was a true statement (it is) but you told the guy "you lied to me."

Telling someone they were dishonest is accusatory -- even if it's true.

[hsshannah96]

Ok well I apologized but if they run off that fast it was not meant to be IG

[hsshannah96]

This was my polite way of addressing this! I don’t even k what else I could’ve said I mean I could’ve just ghosted him maybe that would’ve been better

[hsshannah96]

But hey at least you think it’s true. cause my friend didn’t and she heavy took his side.

[MementoMori777]

The dude could have created an account and left quick, never went back to it, forgot about it and your phone brought it up and he is gonna be like damn i forgot i had snapchat, either that or he doesn't consider it a social media and more of a messaging platform

[hsshannah96]

Gotcha. I don't know what he thinks cause he ghosted but him lying was not putting him off to a good start

[hsshannah96]

I have to be able to trust them and I can’t when they do things like that

[MementoMori777]

Hannah turned into a full on interrogator when she realized he had a social media 😂

[hsshannah96]

Cause his bumble said he didn’t

[hsshannah96]

I’m not sure what wouldn’t scare y’all anymore. I can’t talk to y’all in a way that doesn’t scare you

[MementoMori777]

I was joking, relax Hannah, not everyone is a liar 😂

And people just don't seem used to confrontation from the sounds of it

[hsshannah96]

oh hm

[MementoMori777]

Lol.