Does he not start sex for a reason?

[Anonymous]

Past few times it’s me who starts sex. He starts the second and third time. It’s been like this for 8 years. He will only beg for it drunk. He only starts it maybe once a week

But I know he is keen to masterbate.

But why doesn’t he start sex that much with me? Usually it’s me who says take your clothes off etc sand kisses him first etc. he only does it once a week and the second time etc.

[236color]

I can't speak for all men but if I get turned down repeatedly, I stop asking. I'm not a rapist, if she asks, u I know the answer is yes. I used to hear "tomorrow" fairly frequently until I told her I rather just hear "no" than be told "tomorrow" and then get nothing.

Now as for masturbation, nothing will make that go away, but a man that has sex often enough, masturbates a lot less.

You said he only begs when drunk. Do you WANT him to beg? If so, maybe you should tell him that. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, so he wants sex, but doesn't want to beg when sober. Or is it that you just don't want sex? If you don't, let the poor guy go. Do not start a sexual relationship if you're not ready, willing and able to have sex.

[normandi]

May be he starts sex with another woman

[Anonymous]

Have you thought about asking him?