Why would a guy keep texting me everyday if he's not interested in me? He has many friends that can keep his company other than me?

[Anonymous]

[Alli39]

I mean is he flirting? If so, how do you know he's not interested in you.

But short answer is that he may just be a very social person and enjoy talking to you, even if he's not romantically interested. If this is making you uncomfortable you'll have to tell him that or otherwise indicate disinterest in speaking.

[Asker]

Sometimes he does and texts everyday and then asks me if i would come to his wedding (jokingly he's single now but talks about the future)

[Alli39]

And how do you know he's not interested in you?

[Asker]

Well we been talking for two years and still nothing, means he's not into me i guess

[Alli39]

How long has he been texting you frequently for? Like is this a long term thing or a recent development? Also, extravert or introvert, frequent dater or not, and is there any reason to believe he doesn't just see you as a close friend and assumes you feel the same?

[Asker]

He texts frequently for two years, first two weeks we were still getting to know each other and then we became close
He's never dated anyone as far as i know

[Alli39]

Ok I'm going to say he probably just considers you a close friend if he's gone two years in a close relationship without hinting at taking things in a different direction. If you're looking for more then you could probably drop a few hints/flirt a bit and see if he responds in kind, but otherwise there's not real concern here from my perspective.

[Anonymous]

When demand exists, scarcity creates value

[Asker]

Um what?

[Alli39]

Anon is implying that he's become interested in you because he didn't have other people to give him attention. Possible, but also a rude assumption to make without knowing either of you.

[Opinion Owner]

I was just pointing out that people generally don't take the time to text acquaintances or people they dislike daily. Asker, why do you think he isn't interested in you?

[Asker]

He jokes about me being single and tells me to find a man

[jahaims]

Ask him

[Asker]

Im afraid that would sound cringy