Ladies, do you get self conscious covering any of them if you have them?
It doesn't effect me but I think it effect her, she have 16 stiches on her lower abdomen so whenever I go there to kiss she just stops me and say it tickles there
I haven't asked or talked to her about that I just think It could be a sensetive part of her life and I just don't want to bother her
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Not at all. Imperfections are what make people unique.
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Here's the thing: our eyes work - we can see those things, and, yeah, those things are generally not "desirable". But MOST men are also reasonably grounded in reality, and we understand that women are humans who have flaws, and most of the time, those things don't rise to the level that they become a problem. In more extreme situations they could for a lot of guys, but that's the exception, not the rule.
Most guys know they don't have perfect bodies either, so most guys don't have ridiculous standards. The ones who do tend to either be very young and inexperienced (like 15-year-olds), or they are the really hot guys that all the girls want who are also completely self-centered and entitled and feel that any girl who doesn't look like a Victoria's Secret Angel (or whatever their ideal is) isn't worth dealing with.
The main thing that the majority of men find to be a turn-off is women who are significantly overweight. Yes, I know a percentage of men love bigger women, but the majority do not, and weight is both something a woman can control (unlike something like height) and the single biggest objection that men have with women's bodies when they are overweight. Pimples, stretch marks, etc. are rarely seen as being significant enough to overlook a woman for.
It depends on size and frequency. Are you insecure about your mole, Pinay? Because if we were ever together, that one would be minor enough that I could overlook it. Some veins you're getting concerned about? Wouldn't scare me away, but I understand it can get that way with age. Neither of us is a spring chicken anymore. Stretch marks? A few are understandable. Life is cruel sometimes. Scars? You're no mafia queen, but a few make sense. Can't always avoid sharp edges. I've been hacked at so many times, I have plenty of my own. My face also bears the scars of hidradenitis, the consequence of a barley gluten intolerance that went undiagnosed for years.
Believe me, I'd like to think I could wave a wand and erase all my trauma. Especially given how cruel some women have been to me over it in years past. Not even because I think it would make me a super model or anything close to one, but for the simple pleasure of making liars out of them, and discrediting them before the entire world.
However, some things, we have to learn to live with. I get your need to protect yourself. I have need of it too, for different reasons. But the walls we erect can be uglier than anything life does to our skin. I would know. There have been times I wished I lived in a movie, and Venom would pop out and deal with some of those who've needlessly made my life difficult.
I have a freckle in the center of my left cheek - I actually like it.
I have a faint birthmark on my upper thigh - you only see it when my skin gets tanned because it just doesn't tan. When the rest of the skin tans, it's like a small comet shape. In the winter, when the tan fades, you don't see it.
I had a small mole pop up on the side of my knee that I didn't like and went to a plastic surgeon to have it removed.
I also have a faint scar above my ankle from an accident but it doesn't bother me so much.
There's other freckles here and there. 🙂
It's not a black & white thing for me. So it really depends on many factors. However, I can say that if the disruption becomes too much to the point where it makes the person look unhealthy, it would be an unavoidable turn off. But even that will vary from person to person.
For instance, it would take a lot of blemishes to make Taylor Hill unattractive to me. And not as many for the average girl, I assume. Unless we had a bond of some sort. So the more attractive a person is to me &/or the more emotionally invested I am in the person, the less I'll be turned off by the disruptions to the skin.
Strech marks is common
I don't like big moles on face with a single hair poping out of it.
If any where else that's ok
Small moles are cute.
I mean who likes vericose veins not a good look
But in my experience it happens mostly when you get older so at that point it wouldn't matter I guess.No at least it depends what kind of skin imperfections we´re talking off. If it´s something "natural" stretch marks or even cellulite that´s no big deal to me.
In terms of moles or scars it depends where and how big it is since they can be a turn off if they are big and for instance on the lower arms.No, I love women who have stretch marks and especially cellulite!
moles aren’t a turn off at all. With the other stuff it’s only if it’s really bad. mild acne is no biggie but scars from like severe acne where it was an actual condition are a turn off. a little bit of cellulite or stretch marks is no big deal but if it’s real bad then it’s a turn off. One that’s a huge turn off is c section scars.
What is wrong with moles especially if they are tiny? 😅 Also they were called beauty marks so many times...
Stretch marks YES. Varicose veins YES. Moles no but why doesn't she have them removed. That's more from a cancer health view than a beauty view. Scars guess you can't do much about them.
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I like moles, and love freckles...
not really.
As we get older stuff happens.
None of us are perfect, I have quite a few battle scars many from work or as a result of it, so I do not expect my partner to be perfect either.That stuff has never turned me off, as long as the imperfection isn't like a rash or something. One of the hottest things to me about a pair of tits is seeing veins in them.
I much prefer a real woman to someone who looks like a plastic doll.
I mean yeah it's fucking ugly but it's not enough to detract from an overall good appearance if the flaw isn't significant enough. It's not like my skin is 100% perfect either.
I don't even notice them... I'm concentrating more on pleasuring her.
It's just a part of aging. None of us have the perfect body and skin.
Stretch marks? Yes
Varicose veins? Yes
Scars? If self made, Yes
Moles? Majority of time, No
No the skin is fine. I'm turned off with her attitudes.
Hardly. And if it did then I wouldn't deserve her attention to begin with.
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