Guys, do you ever feel butterflies 🦋 when you’re falling hard for a woman? Why/why not?

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jahaims · Accepted Answer

My wife has been giving them to me since we met.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

It's happened three times in my life.

RavVid · Answer

I am more conscious of my erection. Quite seriously. Like I met this girl who was just it and a bit. She was sexy but sensuous to boot and had a great sense of fun.

The next day at work, I became aware of a my pants-are-too-tight erection because it was a bit painful. Then I realized I had been lightly stroking the cleft between the computer mouse buttons for about 10 minutes.

That was the day I realized that the computer mouse is modeled on the female pudendum. except it doesn't respond to light stroking of the cleft if it doesn't have the central wheel which is usually highly responsive.

I have never experienced butterflies - just tight pants.

ohsheeT · Answer

No nowadays I feel just one big giant butterfly inside of me it's so beautiful it's so intense and if you're laying next to the person or if you start to kiss the person you can just feel it rush through their body back through your body and it is the most beautiful feeling you've ever felt

veganrogue · Answer

Yes. I don't know if it's butterflies or nausea... but the physiological changes that I experiences when my heart quite literally aches for a woman that has filled every dream and daydream with vignettes of kissing her hard up against the wall for hours, an entire life filled with erotic passionate sex, taking care of them when they are under the weather, teasing her mercilessly, wanting to always put a smile on her face and hoping they feel the same... yeah I've been there.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

It used to be all the time. Now, it's more just a conscious awareness that I can't stop thinking about her. Like when you post something here, I light up. If you're gone too long, this site gets boring.

Ompeeee · Answer

Yes, butterflies is probably the right word. Like a mix of going on an exciting theme park ride and the feeling you got the night before Christmas as a child.

Dopamin, serotonin, oxytocin or whatever it may be, but it's an intense feeling.

loveslongnails · Answer

I did when I was younger. It was a great feeling, but I had to learn way to not pin all your hopes and dreams on some fantasy you "think" will work out.

dolemite58 · Answer

i don’t ever really “fall hard” for girls anymore that’s some high school stuff before you know what women are really like, sure i get nervous going on dates sometimes but i remind myself she’s probably going to be as crazy as the last one 🤣

MementoMori777 · Answer

Yes

DaveJord · Answer

Not since I was in highschool, honestly. I mean at 46 it's just not the same.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Of course we do... butterflies come from nervous excitement and not knowing what will happen.

Sparkie460 · Answer

My heart used to beat faster when I thought about my girlfriend who is now my wife

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Butterflies tend to happen to me, including being shy

Grond21 · Answer

I did in high-school, and a bit in college. Not since then

Juxtapose · Answer

Not for a long time, I very purposely don't get my hopes up and so far I've been proven right 🤷

TooHot2Care · Answer

I did.  turns out they were warning me to get the fuck out of here.

Rollingstones84 · Answer

Definitely, there's been certain women that make me feel like that in the past. You just know when you can't wait to talk to them again

LiamJHayden · Answer

I've not actually fallen hard yet, so I do not know.

Grovermint · Answer

I did, when I was fifteen and still going through puberty.

serious · Answer

Absolutely not. No. I never liked a woman in my life so love is out of question.

NYlatefun · Answer

Of course! If there are feelings involved, always!

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Obviously yes... but it doesn't matter cuz they don't

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah been together so long I can hardly remember though

Andres77 · Answer

At my age…it’s usually gas…😉

justabuddy · Answer

It does happen. Excitment and what is she wearing thoughts.

AviatorTom · Answer

I get the butterflies to fly in formation.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, it is good and bad at the sametime.

jimmy2 · Answer

It's not butter files it an erection lop

orangecream · Answer

I do, it's not often. As to why, I have no clue.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope, well not in my age 😄

Christoff92 · Answer

No. I can just talk with them with ease.

Fuentes · Answer

That died when I was a kid lol

BigDog1989 · Answer

ALL THE FREAKING TIME

msc545 · Answer

More like invasive worms'

shortster · Answer

Yes, I get excited about the possibility.

BLP11520 · Answer

Oh yeah many times

Pacquet · Answer

Not in a long time.

DiegoO · Answer

I did.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes I have

Mr-take-yo-girl · Answer

Yeah all the time

andy530 · Answer

Absolutely

dailyoctopus94 · Answer

Definitely

Hmaid · Answer

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