How to talk to a guy who's not very expressive?

[Anonymous]

[BoobSlayer]

First, establish a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere when engaging with this particular gentleman. Just like enjoying a bowl of rice pudding, we must approach with caution and finesse. Start by finding common ground, perhaps through shared interests or experiences. Bonding over our mutual love for Judy Garland or drooling at the sight of @cousin_stacy might just be the perfect icebreaker.

Once you've established a common language, it's time to veer into the territory of open communication. Keep in mind that not all folks are as expressive as they come, so employing a gentle approach is key. Think of it like peeling back the layers of a cantaloupe – take your time and savor the moment. Encourage him to share his thoughts and feelings, reminding him that his interests are valued and appreciated. Be as gentle with him as you would with your own boom booms.

Now, let's address the elephant in the room – some guys might be more comfortable expressing themselves through actions rather than words. Don't fret, my friends. What better way to understand his emotions than by observing his behavior? This is where our expert detective skills come into play. Pay attention to his body language, his facial expressions, and even the way his fiery biscuits sizzle as he contemplates. These nonverbal cues can be an invaluable source of understanding when words fail, and it may be better to let him express himself by groping your coconuts than to expect a soliloquy on existential loneliness or whatever girls talk about.

Remember that people express themselves in different ways, just like everyone has their preferred kind of boobs. Encouraging exploration of emotions, providing a safe space for vulnerability, and offering support are all crucial aspects of navigating the mysterious realm of communication with a non-expressive guy.

Lastly, it's crucial to have empathy and respect for his communication style. Just like a bowl of rice pudding, everyone comes in different flavors – some prefer smooth and creamy, while others enjoy a little crunchiness. Embrace and adapt to his unique communication style, you'll be more likely to establish a genuine connection that transcends mere words, and could become something even better than words, like binary breasticle squeezing. Squeeze means yes. No squeeze means no, you get the picture. ㅤ

[DaveJord]

It's a common fact that the human brain does not become fully developed until the age of 25. This true for both men and woman. But it also proven that women have more two-way communication between both hemispheres of their brain at a much younger age them most males. This means that adolescent woman matures about 2 to 3 years fast on an emotional level them most men. Some studies even show that most men to not become fully mentally developed until 25 and they do not become full emotionally developed until age 42.

So, your profile says you 18 to 24. So honestly on emotional level you are three to two years ahead of the most men your age. This quit simply way men do not stress as hard about stuff or understand why women act so must like women... but all we know is that we like it.

So come at him from a place of caring and compassion. Guys need more advermation from women do. We know we have these feelings, and it matters. But we honestly don't really know why we feel the way we feel, we can't explain it. And therefore, men just accept their feelings in the moment for what they are, and we don't like to talk so much about it. It is what its, the why or because doesn't really matter to us. And more you want to talk about, the more confused we become.

[Peter_Penetrator]

I agree with RealMarek.


For me if I am in a bar or club or anywhere that I may find it difficult to hold a woman’s attention, if we were to go somewhere less noisy or with fewer people around l would feel more comfortable and confident that I could keep her attention.


It is easier for a woman to wait and feel safe while building a rapport with a man before deciding to go somewhere less public with him right away.


So it is very important for a woman to focus on him entirely to build that rapport before deciding to be alone with him.


So if you are at a club, bar or anywhere else with your girlfriends or any group, l would be less likely to approach or look to strike up a conversation out of fear that if l were to flub the conversation, you would quickly lose interest. Whereas if we were more one on one l could better pull off a save.


Sometimes a guy may not feel you would be into him so you would need to be very obvious that he can pass go and collect $200 before he will open up to you.

[Fireguy17]

Kiss method.
Keep it simple stupid.
So basically how to talk to most guys.
You just have to prepare yourself for short answers, and let them know exactly what you want.
No beating around the bush, just tell us.
If you want to tell us the sky is very pretty tonight, don't tell us about a new purse you saw that you liked and expect us to know what the hell you are talking about.
We simply won't have a clue.
Most guys a pretty simple.
I would ask an ex-girlfriend what she wanted to do, meaning that I would do whatever she wanted to do.
Her reply was whatever you want to do, so it was off to the racetrack.
Then I would get the we always do what you want to do, we never do what I want to do.
great tell me what you want to do, that is why I asked you.
I already know what I sound like when I talk.
She would tell me I should know what she wanted to do.
Hoe the hell would I know that?
That is why is asked you in the first place.
So please be direct and keep it simple for your sake and ours.
Life would be so easy for both of us.

[adidas0169]

I will put it very simple that probably anyone can understand bc I'm not very expressive at all. FIND COMMON GROUND. plain and simple. by doing that your breaking any defensive walls they have and by doing that loosens them up and in turn they will open up little by little more easily bc you took the time to get to know them instead of brushing them off. being not expressing doesn't mean we don't care just means it's not our thing or don't know how to be.

[Rohaan2020]

You just share your thoughts with him… try making him comfortable and don’t pressurize him on being expressive… just let him know u’re there whenever he wants to share anything…. And never take it on yourself… like don’t think it’s you with whom he’s not expressing… he might be like this with everyone…. I can tell bcz i am among those persons who find it hard to express my emotions

[serious]

It is going to be very tough. However, it is possible with him once he gets to know you or gets comfortable with you then he might become more expressive.

[Anonymous]

Keep a straight face and watch his eyes first. Just being honest. Cuz I'm a fuccboi and I always swear to girls right off I'm not 1. But Im trying to not look down at the big booty if u got black tights on and also trying to not be fazed by how cute ur face is so my mouth doesn't go 😲😲 against either 1 of them.

[Chris123432169]

Just make him comfortable and happy and he will open up slowly, and don’t rush him or any type of pressure, let it be natural

[ohsheeT]

Sign language maybe smoke signals maybe a puppet show or maybe even with just one finger LOL probably by word of mouth would be the best with a smile

[LiamJHayden]

1. Ask questions.
2. Recognize that men often express differently than women do. You might verbally tell him you love him. He might take your car for scheduled maintenance to express the same thing.

[MysticDevice]

You gotta find the topic that lights him up. Quiet and non expressive people can turn out to be the most interesting people you might meet.

[Anonymous]

Just keep talking to him and make your intentions clear. If he likes you, he will open up more to you.

[jahaims]

He will talk more the more he trusts you. Dude like that has probably been burnt by life and knows it is less painful to be quiet

[RealMarek]

Maybe get him to go on a walk with you and see if that helps him loosen up a bit.

[goaded]

Avoid judging anything he says. Accept criticism as something positive.

[Anonymous]

Show him your boobs and he will express his emotions through his penis.

[Reorx]

Find an interest he has, learn a little about that & create a conversation sometime.

[Iron_Man]

Good luck its like talking to a wooden dummy

[OddBeMe]

Some people are just dull. Others you have to pull out of them what their passionate about.

[Abdulwahh]

Take things a bit slow until he gets comfortable he might open slowly

[Jamie05rhs]

Ask open-ended questions.

[Jamie05rhs]

Also, you may have to gain his trust first. That's really important.

[Anonymous]

are you sure he wants to talk to you then?

[John-spark-naked]

Caring talk with cute smile

[MaxUsefull]

Could give more context?

[Anonymous]

Don’t