Ladies, if a man doesn't have not one single friend (by choice) would that be a red flag for you, why, why not? Guys, what you think of that?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Red flag.

Not a red flag.

Other.

[DaveJord]

Well I have moved a lot in my life. Military guy here. So honestly I just lost the energy to go out a make friends and then leave every couple of years and do it again and then again. When you can never put down roots it's difficult to make real and true lasting friends, or even acquaintances.

This is because over time you're never from anywhere, you're constantly moving around. Eventually you retire and you land somewhere. But still all the locals have ties into the community and roots in place... it's really hard to break into a group of people. Because honestly they are not inclusive... they have simular view pionts on politics to religion... and if your not in line with them it's hard.

So yes, not having friends isn't a great thing. I am honestly envious of these people on some level that never left or moved or experienced the broad and greater world that exist beyond the borders of home. But I would not give up any of the life experiences and places I have been and seen to be them.

I lived in 7 states, and 2 different countries in 22 years. So that's like a move on average once ever 2 to 3 years. Who has time for friends outside of work and family?

So yes, it's difficult. And this believe that since he has no real friends means he is a RED FLAG only serves to further isolated people.

So in the end... I guess it's situational dependent... but definitely NOT an immediate RED Flag... but is more like a Yellow Flag, depending on life circumstances. But if are not willing to. put out the effort to figure that out with a person... then maybe it's you to blame as to why he doesn't have friends.

[Sjoerd85]

My wife doesn't have friends outside of her family, and I see no problem in that.

Me, I also do not have (offline) friends outside of family; I had a friend group when I was still studying, but after we graduated and moved to different parts of the country, that just died off. And with a fulltime job, being amongst colleagues 8 hours per day for five days a week, I really felt no need to create a new friend group, which I would also have to invest a lot of time in.

[YesterdaysChild]

Having no friends would make me suspicious that he has underlying issues, such as being passive-aggressive, that turn people off to him.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't want no damn friends so what's the problem?

[YesterdaysChild]

The problem is you asked a question and I answered it. It's hard to imagine a Christian without friends. Wait, are you pranking me with my "passive-aggressive" comment?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I just never been into friends. They hold no vaule to me.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Also if he had guns. Voted for Trump.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

😂😂

[IceCreamSandwich]

It would be a huge red flag for me if a woman didn't want any friends! I don't know why someone wouldn't want any friends. My friends are very important to me. I'd worry that she won't like me having friends, or won't want to meet or hang out with my friends either.

[Bricealan]

I had one single male friend from the time I was about 12, up through adult hood.

[serious]

I don't think that would be a red flag.