Do you agree with his explanation on guys being mean after rejection?

[jennifer_bloom]

I was talking to my cousin in law and he said guys hate you after you reject them cause they felt wounded by your disinterest and they are trying to protect their ego by lowering your value cause they don’t care about the happiness of others, and only their own.

[rising1138]

Guys shouldn't be dickheads if they get rejected but you have to understand some have been rejected pretty harshly or were played by women.

I appreciate when a woman is straight up though so we don't waste each others time.

[slatyb]

That's about right. It's sour grapes. By behaving like this men reveal their immaturity, letting the woman' be certain that she made the right decision. An adult just says "no worries" and moves on.

[ChiTown33]

I agree with part of it.

Yes generally guys get angry about rejection. But not because of the rejection. Nobody likes rejection. Do you flirt with a guy that shows no interest in you? Well guess what? Most guys don't either. Guy typically ask out women that have to thier knowledge projected some kind of interest in them. Yes miscommunication happen. And some women unfortunately will flirt with and bait some guys just to reject them.

So what I'm saying is that anger is typically him feeling you misled him.

I'll tell ANY guy who will listen though just swallow it. Even if she did lead you on. Because you're a man you can take it. Just don't fall for that nonsense again. Learn from it. A guy has a right to be mad but no guy should ever be verbally abusive (even if she earned it) be better than that guys.

[noemiii]

100% right. Even guys you don’t deny act like this if they feel you’re too “arrogant” and it all boils down to an insecure man thing. An insecure man’s favorite defense to an ego bruise is to insult the woman or add other women to the equation to start a rivalry.