Did he feel rejected?

[md2001]

Okay so, i went on a date with a guy twice. The dates were beautiful and he is very kind, on the second date he asked me how i'm seeing the progress of our relationship. I want to note here that after our first date he was texting me goodnight/goodmorning texts and asking how am i doing everyday. So back to that, i answered honestly that i want to continue going on dates with him, because i like him a lot but i haven't developed feelings yet (didn't say that exactly) and i want to see it blooming between us. Upon that talk i shortly mentioned that i was in a situationship that wasn't very good, i developed feelings but he didn't and we're over. Ofc i did not backstab my ex saying bad things about him to my date. So my date nodded and understood what i was saying and then asked me if he could kiss me, i softly refused and he was ok with it. At the end of our date he told me to go on a third date and after goodnight he didn't text me at all all week. So i took the opportunity and texted him on Monday how he was doing and if he will be free on Sunday to go out. He only read and heart-reacted my message next day, but he was active on messenger. 6 days now he hasn't text me at all, not even has responded to my message. What happened? did i turned him down? lost his interest?

[Guy13]

Playing games when a guy attempts or asks to kiss you is always a wrong move. At gimes, you have to submit and I have no time for a girl that starts playing “sex games” from the get-go. You might as well told him he was butt ugly and not deserving you.
YOU are still in love or suffering on your EX. You proved it NO 💋 NO.

I would be gone too…

[md2001]

No i'm not in love with my ex, he was a jerk to me and it took me a lot of time to forget about him.
That guy i dated is not ugly, instead he has sweet eyes which i admire. What do you mean that at times girls have to submit when a guy asks to kiss? Dude, it was only a second date, i still can't play easy to get, i've matured

[Guy13]

When you tell a Guy, who followed every rule out of Respect, “NO” after the background you gave….
You should expect the guy that Momma would like to interpret that, “she’s not ready to move on…nope, not going to set myself up for hurt.”

[ExoticWarrior]

If I had to put myself in the guys shoes I would say he is probably looking for something serious hence the effort he put into the dates. You seem to be hung on some other guy (like why even mention this ex to this guy?). So why would this guy or anyone who respects themselves for that matter continue putting effort and time into someone who clearly isn't buying into their vibe?

[md2001]

I didn't mention my ex out sudden, he firstly asked me if i had any experience with relationship before and so i responded. Personally i consider very early yet to kiss someone on a second date. Noting that i met him on a dating app. Serious relationships should bloom naturally, I don't see why a man feel rejected because of a kiss on a second date. And it cannot be always a girl's fault. Physical intimacy may come later

[ExoticWarrior]

If that's the case then it could be that he just lost interest and/or found someone else to continue with. Also I wouldn't have mentioned the developed feelings part to him, it's generally a good thing to say to someone you're looking to go further with. Also in this dating climate, there are a lot of girls who go on dates with guys just to be treated well and given free food and stuff which he may have typed you as. In which case he may have suggested the third date just to how a pleasant ending to seeing you rather than actually meaning it.

[ExoticWarrior]

Also given your current situation, the only thing you can really do is wait. Wait another week and if you don't get a response and you really are interested in him then send a test asking him out on a date that you will facilitate.

[md2001]

To be honest, i treated our foods and drinks in our second date. I'm not a person who i would use a man to get free food and things. And no way to put a guy on friendzone from a dating app. I told him im looking forward to continue our dates and taking our time falling for each other. The kiss rejection is not a reason for a guy to feel out. I'm not in a hurry to fall in love, neither i want to play easy to get. No mind games here. I still insist that is very early to ask for a kiss on a second date. Yeah only i am doing now is to wait.

[ExoticWarrior]

You're saying this all to me, which I understand. But have you communicated all of this to him during your dates

[md2001]

How can i get him back if he lost interest?

[ExoticWarrior]

You'll have to ask him out on a date. That's all you can do really. If it's a no then thats that and move on

[NadiaChepiski]

Why did you type so much?

Just by that alone I can tell it's your fault.

[md2001]

i just like typing so much because i like explaining. Instead of that question, you could just get straight and elaborate why its my fault. No need to be rude

[NadiaChepiski]

I didn't read all that shit.

[md2001]

there's no need at all being rude, just walk away

[md2001]

only by just the title you're telling me its my fault yet you didn't read all that. I dont know whats wrong with you.

[NadiaChepiski]

We're on the internet, who's walking anywhere?
Just shave your ass and nevermind.

[TroyDT2]

"on the second date he asked me how I'm seeing the progress of our relationship."

On a second date? If a girl asked me that the second time out I'd run for the hills.

[md2001]

Oh boy, specially he asked how I'm seeing the progress of this. But yeah he meant relationship.

[Rockstarrrrr]

He likes you a lot and moving too fast wanting to know if you like him as much to do the same... and obviously you don't... So, it's simple.. didn't work...