What does one do when they feel Rejected, Alone and lost in life?

[Mitt15]

[ohshee]

You put on your boots you go to the store and You by Twenty loaves of bread. Five jars of peanut butter and five jars of jelly a bunch of cases of water you go home and you make peanut butter and jelly sandwiches put them in plastic bags grab a whole bunch napkins some chips and you go down to where the homeless people are can you pass them out you talked to everyone that you had the sandwich out to because in that moment you're not rejected anymore you're accepted you are thanked for thinking about somebody else and give you from yourself to somebody else that you don't even know you have handshakes you will see tears you will get hugs and Williston deliver within you go home everything that you were feeling everything that you thought is wrong it's the wrong way to think because it's not true you step up to the plate and you do something for you by doing something for somebody else they cannot judge you or make you feel anything because you are the only person that can make you feel anything you're the only person inside of you it'll wake you up it will make you angry it'll make you happy it will make you sad but it will make you realize who you are your potential and your goals and you will understand that you are the only person in this world they can either make you happy or sad are feel the things that you're feeling well I guarantee you're not going to do this but you got to try it it's beautiful

[ChiTown33]

They need to realize first there are people who love them. And they need to surround themselves with those that do. Then they need to go to work on themselves. Because EVERYONE at some point in life loses their MOJO, their drive, their reason to get out of bed everyday. And only those that truly love you can give you a true assessment of who you are. Your good points and bad. And only they can remind you WHY you are loved. Because people don't love you if you're unworthy.
Then it's time to start building not to get back to the realization of who you are. But an even better stronger you than before. Because growth requires growing pains. But in the end it's all worth it. Happiness is a conscious choice in life. You have to choose it. And you have to remind yourself of why YOU deserve it. It's not an accident your here. God loves you and made you for specific purpose. Even if you don't see it right now.
And if it makes you feel better I was there about 4 years ago. So I'm not just speaking it. I lived it.

God bless!

[Mitt15]

Thanks for your answer

[ChiTown33]

...🙂

[Smoke-n-Growls]

There's some great advice already here.

From my experience, here's what's helped me get through times like this:
- take time to reconnect with yourself and your passions
- reach out for help, from professionals (my psychologist for me) and friends
- pull back from commitments and give yourself time to procees (personally I'll emphasize this if I've had a traumatic event, otherwise I might avoid or shorten this if I'm feeling it's just a withdrawal)
- write a list of good things (gratitude journalling really helps reframe our minds)

Often times when I feel alone and lost, all it takes is a friend's offhand comment of how much I mean to them that helps me realize that I don't need to suffer alone.

I can reach out to my friends and get support. There are often more people who care than we think.

[Squaresquirrel]

One takes an inventory of what one is doing, and as it did not work, one looks for different ways even if they are painful and requires one to get out if the comfort zone and one keeps trying.
The other other way is total acceptance so it becomes a neutral thing.

[jennifer_bloom]

Pour your emotions to God and help others in secret

[Anonymous]

I have felt this recently


I just keep trying and get through the embarrassment of knowing people can see I have been rejected


And then it doesn’t bother me once it’s over.


Daydreaming too!
I get so lost in thought easily. I can just sit there with nothing going on and do nothing and I’m happy because I love thinking


And also recently my thoughts have been of the one that makes me feel good about myself, I have fun with, and feel in place. I want to see her so badly but it’ll be a little while

[lightbulb27]

Start inside with your heart. I found God via Jesus, you do what you want.
Find things you love to do, learn, connect with others via doing that.
Be a light to others and yourself.
Meditate.

You have value and a purpose... you have something to give, just start doing things and go from there.

[thunder_bolt]

I just find another one. That's how one should be. it's not wrong at all. You don't need to be feel alone and low just because someone rejected you. I have had felt quite emotional in the past but I have realised nothing changes if I keep thinking about my past. just find another partner. the world has changed.

[TexasRed95]

In my case I just keep working and trying to save as much money as I can.

[Mitt15]

Nice 😊

[Jltakk]

Take a step back, reevaluate, and take a realistic look at things. Do not lie to yourself, and make empty platitudes like "someone will magically be out there". You have to see things as they are, and slow down. Therapy also helps. It sucks if you have inattentive adhd like myself and you feel these.

[Guanfei]

I basically function in automatic mode.
Get up, get ready, go do the stuff I'm required to do to live, come home, eat, play games, and go to bed. And repeat. Like a robot.
After a while, you don't even think about it, you don't even think, you just do. Like a machine.

[Gurdy2816]

I have felt these feelings and honestly... they are some of the most difficult feelings to move past.

Are you feeling this way?

If you are... do you want to talk about it?

[Mitt15]

Sure we can discuss on DM

[hunterzoloman655]

Me I shut everyone out and turn my humanity off the best I can

[Anonymous]

I go and kick some rocks and say a whole bunch of stubborn comments under my breath and then I still on it for about a day and then I go do something to better myself and remind myself that there was a problem and that they missed out and then I’m a catch for somebody that has a responsible attitude about things

[Hanrej]

You walk away, accept being alone and find a purpose. Until you do people will believe their time is better spent elsewhere.

[Iron_Man]

Seek out the Lord Jesus Christ and have your own personal relationship with him and he will guide you

[ArtieWhitefox]

You are in good company. Jesus was rejected. People could not hear the kind unseen Father when he spoke. Jesus was the source of every good and perfect gift.

[mrkdvsn]

God has a purpose for everyone in this life. Seek Him out through prayer and ask Him to guide you

[Anonymous]

Go to Tijuana for chicas and blo?

Worked for one guy I read about.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Go to your family. Family is important.

[Sour-rose]

Keep yo ass movin'.

[Jamie05rhs]

Just keep pressing on, brother. ✊

[TrillXHippy]

It is what it is

[RandomGuy1030]

Cocaine