What to do when you feel rejected by the opposite sex?

[Despite]

What to do when every girl throughout my life has rejected/ghosted/disappointed/wasted my time. I just graduated college and a girl has literally never treated me well in my opinion. I am in such emotional pain right now. I just feel like every girl hates me or is against me (I'm talking in terms of dating me). I am shy and girls have only hurt me throughout my entire life. No girl has done different. I have never had a girlfriend because either the girl isn't worth my time (aka I don't like her enough I guess) or I am ultimately rejected. I have never had a real girlfriend. I just want to know what it feels like to not be rejected. I've never felt that... I feel completely rejected by the opposite sex and it feels terrible. I am attractive, brilliant, and could not think more highly of myself but feel completely rejected by the opposite sex. I feel horrible but as Steve Jobs said: "Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice."... And my inner voice has always told me that I don't care or need female validation because I'm the most attractive + the best guy in the world (in my opinion). I know all females are different. But I so badly need a girl in my life because I feel rejected by the opposite sex. Would so love to hear a girl's thoughts about a guy who sadly feels this way. Especially because I feel like a girl who I let into my life would never suspect this underlying pain since I'm attractive and drawing more attention now. In college and high school, I kind of just did my own thing and or focused on my studies/interests + GPA. In both, I never really fit into any of the cliques. I just feel rejected these days by my generation of girls because no girl has ever proven me wrong.

[SA9946]

Whatever you have explained I have went through all that. Even I have felt ghosted and rejected by guys. I pursued a guy for an year straight and at the end I didn't even get him. Instead now he is dating my best friend. I have to endure them kissing and making out infront of me. He knew the depravity of my feelings and yet even now I haven't got a single explanation from him. Even when he was single and I had just expressed my feelings for him he used to play around with a number of girls and never gave me a chance. Instead he seemed interested in girls not so prettier than me. Do you know how that made me feel? Shattered and disappointed.. It's not just you who have suffered such indignities from the opposite sex. Everybody has went through this. So don't feel alone. Also you said you never had girlfriend because either they reject you or she is not worth you time that is you reject them. So these girls whom you have rejected must feel deflated and ghosted like you. Technically it's a circle.. You get rejected.. Then that person gets rejected by someone and so on. To your advantage you sound like someone who is confident and girls dig that. Hold on to that. In my case my confidence was completely broken and compromised and now I am trying to get it back. Also try to find if you are doing something to turn girls off. It could be a nasty habit or the way you talk or something. Figure that out. And you will get a girl. U deserve so much better. Believe that rejection is universe's way of telling you that there is somebody else more worthy for you.

[Despite]

I disagree. I agree with the last part though and I already do believe that there is someone else out there who will prove me wrong. I can't help what I feel and it just feels like girls are against me if not unworthy in the first place. I'm so tired of rejection and I need to meet a girl that I like.

[SA9946]

Then honestly I think you are depressed

[PrincessGrail]

Try flirting with a few more girls. Maybe you've just had bad luck. If you're that attractive, one of them will probably be interested.

[Despite]

I don't know how to feel about this but I agree with you. I know you're right. I appreciate you saying this. I think it's more flirting with the right girls. I can tell you that I'm glad to be done with college.

[PrincessGrail]

I understand

[Despite]

Graduating has pretty much given me a new perspective on finding a girl that I like. Hopefully it's just what I needed. I do think I need to flirt more and I'm actually excited about doing it 😜.
Interest is not the problem.

[PrincessGrail]

Go for it

[Despite]

Thanks

[PrincessGrail]

Thanks for MHO

[DizzyDesii]

Never give up

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[anmari2001]

I remind myself why I love pugs the most