Could it be he would like to choke me?

[Anonymous]

I'be been with this guy two times and both times I noticed he like puts his hand near my throat, not grabbing it just like in that area and he rests his hand there when we lay in bed. Not gonna lie I would love if he'd just grab it I guess, so I like tried to put his hand in that area where he usually puts it himself to maybe get the message across (I'm shy and I don't know how it would come across if I just said I like some violence starting with this) and he didn't do anything but he did ask me why I put his hand there because he noticed "I've put it there once before" and I just laughed I think because I was drunk

Help? Lol

[Hulk_kitty]

It sounds like you're navigating a situation that involves your preferences in a relationship, and you're trying to figure out how to communicate what you'd like without feeling too direct or uncomfortable. Here's a way you could approach this:

"Hey [His Name], I wanted to talk to you about something that's been on my mind. I've noticed that you sometimes place your hand near my throat when we're lying down together. I wanted to let you know that I find that sort of touch really intriguing and it's something I'm curious about exploring more. I hope I didn't come across as confusing when I placed your hand there before; I was trying to show you that I'm interested in that kind of dynamic too. I'm a bit shy about bringing it up directly, but I thought it was worth mentioning because I want to be open about my feelings and preferences with you."

Opening up a conversation like this allows you to express your interest while also addressing any potential confusion that might have arisen from your earlier attempt to communicate non-verbally. It's important in any relationship to have open and respectful communication about your desires and boundaries. Remember, everyone has different preferences and comfort levels, so it's key to ensure that both you and your partner are on the same page and comfortable with any exploration you decide to embark upon..

[Anonymous]

Notice how society makes everyone believe these things are normal. It's common in porn but that fact itself should tell you that it is not normal at all...

[Asker]

I don't watch porn lmao

[Opinion Owner]

He probably does though...

[spartan55]

When he's pounding your P just tell him to choke you.

[bowenw]

I suggest putting his hand on your throat next time and tell him want to try it.

[bowenw]

^you want to try it

[Anonymous]

Don't let him do that.

[Asker]

Why?