Do you guys think he’s being serious about chocking me?

[Anonymous]

He said, you don’t know how crazy I am. 🙂🤭

Previously he told me he likes women to be submissive.
He calls me everyday multiple times a day for an hour.

He asked if a bruise easily since I’m light skinned. He told me I’m not into beating women but I might be a little rough sometimes you know just playing.
He works a lot, has a big family, calls me everyday for several minutes, tells me about his day so I don’t think his violent.

[Dinklex3]

I’m confused. Like sexually?

Or is he saying that’s his temper? If he’s telling you he’s into choking then take that seriously.

My boyfriend is into that, but he’s never been concerned about bruising me even when playing around because he knows he won’t and is careful not to.

“I’m not into beating women, but I’m a little rough” what does that mean? Clarify first. Otherwise when it happens he’s just going to say “I told you “… So I think you need to find out more information on what exactly he’s into and have him give you examples so that you 100% understand & avoid an unfavorable situation.

[spartan55]

Let me see if I follow your logic. Because he: calls you every day for 'several minutes', works a lot, tells you about his day, and has a big family, that all adds up to he is not violent? Yeah, keep telling yourself that when he starts beating the shit out of you. You are in serious denial.

[ManOnFire]

But it also seems like deep down you must into it, or curious to have rough sex. If you weren't and it truly bothered you, you wouldn't keep accepting his calls or keeping communication with him. I think you actually want to do it with him.

[Asker]

No I am not in to it. It just seems difficult to me to believe someone is that dumb or smart enough to actually choke me and if so before judge or play with him I need to find out what that means. I’ve never been in toxic relationship so I don’t know how to react or rough sex. I’m alone so I have no family or someone to ask that’s why

[ManOnFire]

Well, I would tread lightly with him. You really don't know a person until you get closer to them, and even then you can still not know them.

[RebelinSteel]

Well that’s a huge bunch of red flags waving. I would just break all contact. For starters choking is dangerous, it’s one cause of physical and mental trauma, people suffer interruption of blood flow to the brain, then have potential mental and physical issues. He wants to live out his kinks and does not really care about what impact that has on you.

[Anonymous]

It seems pretty obvious that he's serious abut it. But is that a bad thing? Only you can answer that question. Are you into that kind of sex? If so, then it's probably a good thing. Otherwise, it's probably a bad thing.

[Staximus]

If a guy talks about choking you then you're an idiot if you go into the bedroom with him

[John_Cobretti]

Of course he is, be a good girl now

[DrPepper12]

Whaddya mean has a big family? 🚩🚩🚩

[jahaims]

Have fun getting abused

[Pterodon]

Yes he’s serious