I'm really curious about it. Can a guy tell if a girl is virgin or not when she didn't tell her?
There are no physical traits or behaviors that can reliably indicate a woman's sexual history. The concept of "virginity testing," often centered around checking the hymen, has been widely discredited by medical professionals. The hymen can vary in shape and size, and can also be stretched or torn due to numerous non-sexual activities such as sports, tampon use, or medical procedures. Furthermore, not all sexual activities involve penetration, so the absence or presence of a hymen is not a reliable indicator. Communication and trust are the only ways to know someone's sexual history.
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Do you mean can he tell when he has sex with her or before he has sex with her?
Most of the time a guy can tell she is a virgin even before he has sex with her if he spends enough time with her. There are little clues you can pick up that are subtle, but pretty solid. But of course you can't pick it up instantly. For a girl, losing her virginity changes her forever. The difference isn't easy to detect or even explain. It is a certain kind of innocence that you can detect if you are experienced enough and spend enough time around her.
Don't know about telling if she is a virgin, but I think it's far easier for a man to tell if she's not. At least it always has been for me anyway. One big give away is how some women try to act super pure and innocent with you if she thinks you're a good or innocent type guy. Because she thinks you're relationship material even though she's having casual sex with guy after guy, so she'll pretend to be innocent if it can make you like her for a relationship. That's always a dead give away for knowing a woman isn't a virgin.
No they are idiots, just because I was sexy everyone assumed I wasn’t a virgin.
Real idiots…
If you look sexy or aren’t afraid to show off yourself, they think you are promiscuous.
Women who aren’t all that sexy and dress modestly can be much less likely to be virgins in my experience.I lost virginity at 22.
No they can't. Not by how we feel because we give birth if we go back to size after that man there's NOOOOO PENIS that can say otherwise lol. Not by if we bleed or not because not all virgins bleed and some women may just bleed from sex. And not by how we act ("slutty" or "prudish".")
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Haha, no. Though supposedly, we give off a "vibe," or our mannerisms are telling.
The last guy I was interested in asked me was I a virgin. Why? Apparently I acted like one-
No, I'm not kidding; he said that 😂
The presumptioness of some people, I swear.A guy can tell if she is a hoe and he will assume she is not a virgin if she is living with a man. However, in most cases, if she has a low body count and no extended sexual relationships, he has no way of knowing. Even gynecologists cannot tell if she only had sex less than handful of times.
There is thing that is called hymen, that give away if a girl is a virgin or not, virgins are best.
Pffft, no. And guys should be caring or think they do know. There's so much BS false info shared out there to guys that they think is real without asking women if they are true or not or even looking up anatomy research. Never trust a guy to tell and never go for a guy who obsesses over virgins.
You generally can't tell by just hanging out with her, no. Guys who know what to look for could tell if they had sex with her, but many guys wouldn't know what to look for or wouldn't be paying enough attention.
No there is no way to tell if someone is a virgin or not
depends. The more experience you have the more you'll know.
I'm not talking about just having fun.I met someone on a dating site, she had 3 kids. Pretty sure she wasn't a virgin.
Well considering a girl is tighter when she is a virgin and she bleeds.. I think they can tell..
Yes, in most cases. If her Hymen is still intact, I will know when I finger her. If broken, I maybe able to tell when my cock begins to push in her and she is not sure of what to do.
Most guys just assume that she isn't because nowadays they're not common to find.
Sometimes. A friend had a baby within six months of claiming to be a virgin. Her name wasn’t Mary, it was Danielle.
It's much easier to tell she's not a virgin than to tell she is a virgin, unless her hymen is still intact.
I can tell what her history is and a very accurate intuition of her past sexual history. There are so many tells!
You can generally get a vibe for a woman's experience level from her behavior. Virgins tend to be more nervous people.
You can't really tell. Im still a virgin myself but people still assumes Im not a virgin anymore. The only thing you can tell if you have sex with her and she bleeds.
I'm not sure, but if he dates her, maybe. I dated a virgin once. I would say she was pretty innocent, pretty awkward about the intimate part. It was really slow.
Suspect at the most when interacting with her by her body language but can't be 100% sure unless she tells you.
Yes, there are ways to tell. It is in the guy manual.
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