Can you tell if a guy is a virgin or not?

[Anonymous]

So basically my mother said something that intrigued me today. She said that you could tell when a guy is a virgin by how shy they are or not, and straight out said which one of my guy friends were virgins and which were not and actually got them all right.

So is my mother right, is there a set way to tell or is she just a psychic?

[Accipiter]

She's only partially true. The girl I lost my virginity to had no idea and was absolutely shocked when I announced it to her. She wouldn't believe me until she witnessed my sexual performance that showed my lack of experience. Therefore I'd say awkward and confused sexual performances are a bigger indicator that a guy is still a virgin.

[ajboarder]

Bullshit. Shyness has nothing to do with losing your virginity. I've had sex dozens of times and I'm still shy as hell.

[lumos]

Hahahahhaa no. You can only assume, but you can never be 100% sure. The most shy people can have a sex partner, or even multiple sex partners. And the most outgoing people can be virgins, too. It really boils down to the person, their beliefs, and what opportunities they have had/haven't had.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

There's some truth to it, but some people really are just shy.

[ForgottenDreams]

No, some people are just shy.

[Anonymous]

yes i guess being shy is a right sign