Why did he change?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy back in June. His social media didn’t indicate he had a girlfriend or his Instagram stories that he would share. She was never mentioned or brought up by him either. However, recently out of nowhere he stopped talking to me and he started to post photos of his girlfriend on his Instagram story. After check out her page it appears they’ve been dating for a almost a year. I’m curious to the change of behavior. Did she find out something and he’s doing damage control?

[spartan55]

Probably something like that. Why does it matter?

[Asker]

What if she didn’t?

[spartan55]

What if she didn't what?

[Asker]

Find something out

[spartan55]

What was there to find out? Your post lacks context/details pretty much everything needed to give a quality response.

[Asker]

We never dated or anything but he did show interest.

[spartan55]

Okay... I don't really understand why what his girlfriend did or didn't do matters to you so much?

[Asker]

Why did he suddenly change?

[spartan55]

His girlfriend likely busted him.

[Asker]

We never texted

[spartan55]

Okay, well none of this makes sense.

[spartan55]

Maybe she busted him another woman. There are other women besides you out there. So you never dated, never texted, help me understand why this guy matters? Because you think he showed interest? What did he stare at you or something?

[Asker]

So I never mattered to him. You’re right

[spartan55]

If you never even talked to him how could this be anything except some fantasy in your head?