Are men responsible for single Mom's?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No , they are both responsible , they both choose to have sex with each other , they both choose to be stupid having sex with each other , if she didn’t want to get pregnant she should of been taking birth control or making him wear a condom , if he didn’t want a baby , he should of wore a condom period , so again they are both responsible for not raising that baby together , they shouldn’t of had sex if they didn’t want to be together for the long haul period , She is a single mother because she choose to sleep with a guy that just wanted to have sex with her that didn’t want a relationship with her , That’s the problem with this world and relationships , It’s always someone else’s fault but never their own fault period , It takes 2 to tango so it’s both their fault period

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

Yes because they get girls pregnant and then leave saying: Oh I don´t want to be a dad. Yes girls are responsible, too for that but guys share 50% of the blame but it´s easier for them to get away afterwards.
Sure one could say that girls shouldn´t open their legs for such guys but as a guy that´s easier to say and guys would use anything to get sex asap from a girl they like.
I would therefore say that if guys share 50% of the blame of creating the single mom phenomen they don´t carry all blame but they are the ones that get her pregnant and they are the ones that get women sleep around but have no problem taking a girl´s virginity no matter if they are married to that girl.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean they're 50% responsible yeah. But to quote a movie "men are the gas, women are the brakes". I'm not saying I believe this because I don't. But I woman should always hold this attitude. Because there's always going to be guys just trying to get laid, and will you any tactic at thier disposal to do so. And they epidemic we have today is we have a generation of women who think getting her f*** on is empowering. And that guys will just fall in love with her. She has not been raised with consequences and so she finds out the consequences for this poor choice in the worst way possible. Which is bad enough, but unfortunately her offspring pays the price for it as well. Which is the truly tragic part of it. He or she had no say in the matter.

Berethor · Answer

I don't feel responsible for other man, so I don't need that shit in my life, don't want to date.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

At a certain point, no. Women are adults and their agency and decision making needs to taken into consideration.

236color · Answer

It takes 2 people to make a baby. Unless the woman was raped, she bears some responsibility.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Only if it is our child, otherwise we are NOT.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Nope. Women make their own decisions unless they are raped.

inhua · Answer

takes 2 to tango

Anonymous · Answer

Most of the time, yes.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Usually yes but sometimes no...

dolemite58 · Answer

no its usually women having bad judgment.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Mostly tbh

Anonymous · Answer

For the most part

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