I’m highly empathic and easy to manipulate. How can I deal?

[Kfotjtbg]

How do I deal with the fact I’m very easily emotionally manipulated because I’m a Vedic Pisces moon woman?

I am highly empathic to people and animals too sometimes. People seem to pick up on how soft I am and they try to manipulate me.

im a little materialistic though so I do like if someone buys me stuff or food or gives me money. That makes me happy.

[strateguy632]

the stars have decreed you are piwerless. j. k. simply stop believing in that and ask yourself what you gain by doing what they tell you and if you can trust them. if not then don't even for gain. buy your own treats.

like the brat in my class who told the new kid at school "lick the sign pole and i will give you this cookie" i ran over and warned, might not give you the cookie.

gross licking a pole where everybody puts their hands, as they pass, especialy in winter when the tongue might freeze stuck. what a brat!!

[Kfotjtbg]

Im easily manipulated in the moment and may not have time to think in the moment.

[BlackBeauty90]

STOP believing in zodiac unless you bring in the entirety of your personality - Moon, Sun & Ascendant - AND far more importantly UNDERSTAND what you're reading. Because real Pisces Moons are NOT easily manipulated they are SKILLED manipulators due to their sensitivites towards others. That intimiate ability can be used quite dangerously.

So your problems have absolutely nothing to do with your Zodiac sign - honestly READ and TRY to comprehend what the zodiac is about - and more to do with your immaturity and lack of knowledge. You are likely insecure by nature and can't manage yourself.

[Anonymous]

Being a vedic Taurus moon I'm just like you girl. But when someone hurts me frequently I try to find patterns and connect the dots you know 😄😄. But even after knowing that person is not good for me I can't leave them. We r same girl sadly. But we need to improve this thing otherwise most people will take advantage of us. In this world , only few people value kindness❤️.

[Kfotjtbg]

aww sweety 💜 we have to stay strong and not let them make us as selfish as they are. At least we are kind and often happy people. I would hate to be as evil minded as they are even if they “get what they want easily”. It’s not worth it at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly 💯 we should not bend down to their levels as well as throw kindness all around us whether they value that or not

[BlackBeauty90]

@Kfotjtbg comically real Pisces Moons are NOT easily manipulated they are SKILLED manipulators due to their sensitivites towards others. That intimiate ability can be used quite dangerously.

[wkozak]

Always ask yourself why, why did someone said this to me? Why he want me to do that?, Being emotional means that your feelings wre pure and you're a good person, but always think about the things around, try to think before taking actions and that will help you to not be easy to manipulate.

[BoopBoopBeep]

The fact that you used as reason for anything that you're "a Vedic Pisces moon woman" shows that you're gullible. That has nothing to do with empathy. I've no doubt you have both, but the fact that you're a sucker is why you're easy to manipulate not because of some random location of astronomical bodies at the insignificant moment of your birth.

[Ironic_Method]

This saved me from writing it all out myself.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Ironic_Method Haha, glad I could help.

[Anonymous]

i am highly empathetic. I'm a nurse, I don't get manipulated. It all has to do with the flaws in your way of thinking. It has nothing to do with being empathetic. what you need to work on is settling boundaries and being aware that not everyone has pure intentions.

[Opinion Owner]

@Hdidbtbty

Its not the fact that you're empathetic which is why you're being manipulated

[Opinion Owner]

@Hdidbtbty

Plenty of empathetic people dont get manipulated

[gxddess_]

I also have empathy but not easily manipulated. Having a good heart is awesome, but then you should have boundaries of your own. Learn to stand up for yourself if something's wrong. Practice awareness.. and always choose who you make friends with.

[coffeeeholic]

I'm highly empathic like you but also I am a skeptical person. If a person start making you feel guilty or if they try to make you upset and emotional, maybe you should try to think very logical andor me do it when you alone.

[Spongebobssocks]

The "I’m a Vedic Pisces moon woman" said enough..

Either way stop making new friends. Stick to one or two friends

[DextroShade]

Only women get to use astrology and other woowoo bullshit as an excuse for their shortcomings, as I have never heard a man say "Sorry I can't help being such a stupid asshole I'm a Virgo!"

[Berethor]

That's why woman should not be leader, men tend to be more stoic and smarter than women.

[WhitneySnow]

Learn to build up your defenses. That’s what I did.

[Darklydarkened]

You'll need to start changing how you think.

[Kfotjtbg]

How?

[Darklydarkened]

Think differently, you're asking me ''how'' now

In fact, you should always question anything you see or hear. ''How does this work'', ''Why does he say that'', ''What's the reason of this happening'', ''What can possibly go wrong''

You should do it to absolutely anything.

[Kfotjtbg]

Oh I’m a thinker just not always as fast as doing it in real time.

[Anonymous]

build up more walls around you more defensive more on guard with who you let in your life and use common sense more be more logical rather than emotional but also learn to find a balance between emotional and logical

[Opinion Owner]

i'm sorry you go through manipulation it isn't right or fair to you

[Anonymous]

Find someone who is autistic? They tend to be straight forward and direct.