Why is it that I always attract insincere manipulative people?

[Anonymous]

They seem nice at first, so I let them into my life. But over time, I find out they're only playing mind games and manipulating me. The problem obviously lies with me, because it's every person I come across 🙁 don't know what to do any different to stop attracting these types of people 😩

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[Anonymous]

I've dealt with the same thing a big part of it was due to them seeing me as an easy target to mess with because I didn't have confidence and I had extremely low self-esteem probably zero self-esteem and I guess in a way I didn't respect myself enough so I became a target for them

[Asker]

I do have low self-esteem 🙁not sure how to get OT back though

[Asker]

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[Staximus]

I don't know your personality and the situation, but usually manipulators seek a target that is easy to manipulate

[Asker]

Can ypu give examples of an easy target?

[Staximus]

I don't know, I'm not a manipulator. Look up "how to avoid manipulative people" or something

[FilmGuy93]

You probably give off the vibe of someone who doesn't have healthy boundaries figured out.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's true. What sort of boundaries should I establish with people to let them know I'm not an easy target? I🙁

[FilmGuy93]

It's just more of an energy you have to learn to give off. You want to make it obvious that you are someone who keeps their word and don't put up with people who don't keep their's.

[Asker]

OK. Thank you