If you are married and you come to know?

[lastlyfound]

If you are married and you come to know that your partner is secretly in a relationship with someone else.. with whom she/he is having regular chat on phone and meetings and even having sex.

What would you do?

Tell about it to the partner of the other person and breakup/ take divorce on grounds of cheating

Tell about it to the partner of the other person, forgive my own partner and love happily with him/her

Simply file for divorce from my partner on grounds of cheating

Talk about it with my partner and ask him/her the reason. Try to relocate and keep him/her happy with me

Other option

[LaurenM1997]

I would pack my shit up dump his ass and file for divorce I deserve so much better than that piece of shit

[LaurenM1997]

I’d also flee Scotland and go live somewhere else so he can’t get a hold of me

[exitseven]

I would draw the line at sex

[lastlyfound]

What do you mean?

[exitseven]

is she was just talking to some guy on the phone I would not be too upset. If it got physical that would be a different story.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the deep end of emotions here! Finding out your partner is having an affair is like a rollercoaster nobody wants a ticket for. It's tough, but here's the thing: communication is your best friend. Taking some time to process your emotions is key since acting on impulse could lead to decisions you might regret. After that, a calm and honest conversation with your partner is crucial. Understanding the "why" behind their actions doesn't excuse it, but it gives insight into what went wrong. Depending on their response and your feelings, counseling could be a next step, either together or solo, to navigate these choppy waters. Above all, remember your worth and priorities, especially if decisions around marriage and family come into play. Love should uplift, not tear down. Keep your chin up; you're not sailing this storm alone. 💔💪

[XXblack88]

simple file for divorce and move on

[jahaims]

Cut them off

[lastlyfound]

Can't forgive?