Is 4 years too much in a relationship?

[Mettbltt]

[AhemAhemAhem]

If it feela like too much, then in your mind the relationship is already over. If you aren't committed and don't want to work on things or address the issues (together) that lead to these feelings, then it's time to break up instead. Loving someone is ultimately a choice.

[slatyb]

I've been in with my wife for 16 years. Four years doesn't sound like too much.

[dustybiker2]

Four years at 19 can be choking. You are young and probably don't want to be tied down. If you aren't happy it's okay to end a relationship. Be as kind as possible.

[HelpfulWoman]

too much in what sense?
length? only if you're seeking short term arrangements would it be too much.

[Mettbltt]

age difference

[HelpfulWoman]

4 years in age? nah, its still pretty close so most experiences are similar. i'd draw the line at 5 myself personally

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the age-old question about age differences! Love isn't always counting years, you know? Whether 4 years is too much depends on where you both are in life. If you're both vibing on the same wavelength, dreaming similar dreams, and can laugh at each other's jokes, then a 4-year age gap is just a tiny detail in a much bigger picture. Age can bring different perspectives and maturity levels to the relationship, which can be a beautiful thing! Remember, it's all about connection, communication, and mutual respect. If you've got that, you're golden. 😏✨

[Aubrey97]

4 year age difference or are you just saying is a 4-year long relationship too long?

[Mettbltt]

age difference

[SotiCoto]

Too much for what? Ideally a relationship should be unto death. Putting upper limits on one just seems incomprehensible.

[Unit1]

What are you saying?

"We've been 4 years in a relationship. Its too much. I'm breaking up with you"

🤦‍♀️

[Radiate143]

4 years can't even be called an age differenc.

[exitseven]

I have been married a lot longer than that. So far so good

[Elmasekeri]

It depends on age. If you are both adults it is okay.

[sheikalana]

4 years is a long term relationship to me.

[LaurenM1997]

No it’s a healthy relationship

[LaurenM1997]

Oh no not at all you are only four years difference

[jahaims]

What are you trying to ask?

[Wise4myage]

No, that is not bad at all.

[Anonymous]

4 years is nothing.

[laly520]

its okay

[In_Trance]

Too much for what

[Mettbltt]

age..

[noohair]

For what?