I have this guy friend and we’ve been close for about a decade & I really wanna know how to tell if her friend zoned Me?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been having sex for years & he truly knows me , we communicate really great but I still feel like he’s distant

[Pyrofox]

I mean you could always pop the question XD. Are we a thing lol... Just don't be surprised if he's like...

"Um I thought we already were serious XD."

[Pyrofox]

Most guys are just really laid back around those they really like to be around which can feel I guess indifferent or passive. But really it just means they can be their real selves around ya.

[Asker]

I definitely agreee

[spartan55]

If you are as close as you think this should be an easy discussion. I bet you think you two are much closer than he does. You are his free 🥧 pie.

[Asker]

Nah it’s mutual lol

[spartan55]

Really? Then why are on questioning how distant he is and if you have been friendzoned?

[Asker]

I be in my head 😂 but we never really just had a conversation more so

[spartan55]

So why can't you just talk to him about it?

[AjayOnTheInternet]

I don't have sex with my 'friends'. Seems you should ask him.

[Asker]

That part , thanks

[Avicenna]

Bring up the topic and make it clear that it's important to you

[Asker]

Yea I’m gonna do that

[Iron_Man]

He’s a friends with benefit can’t you tell already?

[Asker]

Yea but it’s more to it that just benefits lol he’s considerate of my feelings n etc

[Iron_Man]

He might be nice but does he sleep around? You guys are not committed you have no rules set up at all anything goes hall way pass to cheat

[Asker]

He could definitely still see anyone but iknow he doesn’t , mainly due to his wrk schedule but we was both in situations at the time so I didn’t have any rules in place but now that we are both single. I should have some

[Iron_Man]

You guys should do something make a commitment

[Asker]

Yea, we’re gonna have a conversation, I've been avoiding it, the Virgo in me

[Anonymous]

Knowing each other for years pretty much sums it up. He just see's you as a fuck buddy/friend.

[Jmmmfi4]

Some guys just are