My boyfriend said he is afraid to lose me?

[Anonymous]

He was ex drug dealer and one of his friends offered him to enter the market again to sell c@caine and he refused

He was honest what he was offered and he said he doesn't want that life anymore he want to have normal life and that now he has something to live for and so etbing to lose-Me

So he refused all that

... good? or bad?

Gag speak up

We are nearly 3 years together

[BoopBoopBeep]

Not being a drug dealer is nearly universally considered a plus, you can't honestly be asking that?

Yeah. Go with "good".

[Asker]

Im asking that
You dont know how messed up my mentality is

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you honestly don't know if dealing drugs is better than not dealing drugs you've no business in any relationship and should get intensive psychiatric help first. Society has gone so far as to actually outlaw the behavior, we find it so unsavory, yet you're just really perplexed here?

[spartan55]

If you think him refusing to do that was entirely about you then you are delusional.

[Asker]

Im ok... you are here to speak up, as i asked, not to insult me
If you can't explain it to me
Just pass by

[spartan55]

I think you need to learn the definition of an insult. Him saying is a positive for his life etc, but you seem to think it's all about you. Maybe be happy for him instead of trying to be the main character? He has plenty more to lose than you. His freedom for example? His life?

[Asker]

Understand that too
Im not saying im the best thing in his life

[spartan55]

Well the only thing you mentioned that he has to lose is you, so a reasonable person would think you are making it all about you.

[Asker]

Its His words Not mine
He said " i have something to lose and its you"
He said it, not me assuming it

[spartan55]

No, no, that's not what you said, but whatever. It's all about you.

[Asker]

I didn't explain myself correct
Im not even English

[Asker]

Thats the truth

[spartan55]

Fair enough

[AjayOnTheInternet]

Good, he's trying to change his life around and make a safe environment for you.

[Lisia]

Big green flag!