How to make your boyfriend afraid to lose you?

[girlgonewild123]

I really want to feel like my boyfriend is afraid of losing me as much as im afraid of losing him, what should i do? or how to know? I want him to feel that he is really like to have ma and that i am one of a kind

[soppytinky234]

I told this guy a while ago I liked him and he said he didn't mean to lead me on and he was really sorry. We still hang out and last night we went to a movie with two other friends. He picked me up from my house and took me there and back with just the two of us in the car. We talked but I felt a little awkward. We always text and stuff and we r good friends. Next time we hang out I just want to grab him and kiss him. Would he be grossed out or upset if I do. Would I look super desperate?

[Dalona]

You can't make him... either he will be afraid to lose you or he won't. Depends on if he cares.

[WhiteRaven]

You can't make someone "afraid to lose you". If they genuinely love you, they will automatically feel that; it's not something which can be acquired.

[FitnessLord]

Be always beside him. Cook for him, give the guy some poontang. I would never leave a girl if I had those three at once.

[Anonymous]

This is the start of a failed plan to play a game that ultimately loses your your boyfriend. Just giving you a heads up...

[Kythe]

Hmmm... take out a contract on him if he leaves?

[girlgonewild123]

I didn't understand

[Kythe]

Hit man :)

[miserybusiness]

Considering she's under 18

"Dear bf, if you leave me, you will forfeit your videogames under relationship amendment #12235. Pls sign on the dotted line."

[Kythe]

Yeah, that would probably result in fewer legal complications!

[Kythe]

Allow me to be serious for a moment, though, @girlgonewild123 . I'm not sure this is the best approach to a healthy relationship.

I've been with my wife for 20 years. I can't imagine life without her, and yes, I'd give my life for her.

At the same time, I'm not with her because I'm afraid of being alone. I'm with her because I love her.

Wanting to hold on to a good thing is natural. Holding on out of fear, in my opinion, may not be the best approach. Instead of trying to make your boyfriend afraid of losing you (I can see games in the future that may backfire), work on building bonds between you, and if you're afraid of being without him, work on being OK with yourself. That will also increase your own attractiveness (it can be hard to love people who don't love themselves).

[Jbunch]

Be the best girlfriend he has ever had! Simple.

[girlgonewild123]

And how is that? he never had a girlfriend before

[miserybusiness]

Hold his car hostage.