How come many men are so open about their emotions but I’m a woman and I’m NoT?

[Mamamirit]

tend to show the opposite emotion than I feel. But men will come right out and tell me they’re sad happy love me etc etc and I can hear it in their voice or whatnot and they tell me what is upsetting them

I’m just like wow i could never

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because you're a coward (and I mean this objectively).

This isn't a guy thing, its a normal person thing.

Acting the opposite of how you feel just because you are too scared to be honest, is just weird.

I've only met a few people who do what you do, some were men and some were women, but they were all very judgmental people, so they assumed that wearing their emotions on their sleeve would open them up to being judged back, or being deemed a hypocrite, so they hide their mind like cowards.

Thats too much of a hassle to most people. I dunno how you could possily ever be happy while never being honest.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Prettybiychh I don't care if you're a coward, I'm just giving you the correct answer to your question.

[TheSpaceGnome]

You can be weird all you want, I'm still going to state things objectively regardless.

[smilelots]

Because we are all different right not all woman or men are the same in a lot of things in life.

[Anonymous]

They are probably soy boys as any "real" man will laugh at men showing emotions. They will also laugh at women displaying emotions and call them emotional (even tho its said for that to be a feminine trait)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a myth. Most men do not give a fuck about that and are brutally honest about their emotional state because only cowards hide emotions, and soy doesn't actually effect male development, that was debunked ages ago.

[Opinion Owner]

Men have basic emotions, happy, dissapointed, angry, but don't show it. Showing it too much is considered soy boy behaviour, I was talking about showing it too much

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually we do show it. And no its not considered that. You're just an idiot. Most men are VERY open and loud about our emotions.

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting, i never experienced it otherwhere than looking at gen z. I know that men like to show anger but being sad rarely (thats why most suicides are by men cuz they dont talk about emotions - and transpeople but that not important rn)

[Opinion Owner]

Also men say that women are emotional (usually ment in a bad way) and men logical (ment in a good way)

[TheSpaceGnome]

No most men conversing about this topic say that women are illogical.

Everyone is emotional, but there is a stereotype that women are nuts because they "can't think when they are emotional".

In reality there isn't a difference between the 2 genders in terms of emotions or logic, most people in general are just dumb and overly emotional at the wrong times and overly logical at the wrong times, because of shit priorities.

If a guy's priorities are different than a girl's, as is sometimes the case in traditional homes, they aren't going to show strong emotional responses at the same time or for the same reasons.

[TheSpaceGnome]

And that can give the illusion of one being less or more emotional than the other.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you think both genders are the same in both emotion and logic you are different and i like what you believe. I just spoke from personal experience what i heard, saw. men would still laugh if they saw another was crying (not to their face, but e. g. if they heard about that). America is different the things happening there shows where this world is going 👇

[Nikki1989]

I haven't known many men like that.

[Mamamirit]

When I think about it it makes sense cause men are supposed to pursue us and opening their hearts to us makes sense if they want us to open to them

[boobliker]

we have had to put them out in front to be seen sorry you can't show yours.

[boobliker]

Next time you are sad wight me a message telling me why you are sad then read it in an hour If your still feeling low send it to me

[Iron_Man]

You don’t know yourself well by now

[shades777]

says who