What should I do if my date kisses someone else in front of me at the bar?

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A little context would be good. Like on the lips? Do you know if it was a friend? Did he just leave you and start talking to some girl and then that? I don't know what to say since the details around it are fuzzy. I wish I could give some advice but the best I got is move on from him if that was some random girl. I would have left to be honest. He obviously is going to bounce from girl to girl if he can't even pay attention to you and only you for one night.

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  We were dancing she was rapping to the song and I didn’t know it but he did and I encouraged them to dance since they knew it. Then he includes me in the dancing but it’s clear the girl doesn’t want me there so I’m just awkwardly standing there, he asked if I will get mad if he kissed her I say I don’t mind then they kiss. And he even asked her if she has instagram
  
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  Yeah I would've left right then.
  
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Think about what lead to that moment. Maybe they were already close, maybe he liked her already, maybe she made a move on him. Things out of your control.
But there are also things within your control. Did I manage to grow close to him? Did I ask him out?

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  No he asked me out. She was a stranger at the bar we where all dancing then he asked me if I mind be kissed her then he kissed her on the lips
  
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- JosyJosy
  
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  ? What did you answer?
  
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- JosyJosy
  
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  Red flag on his part. He asks you out and then kisses somebody else, that is someone looking for fun. Not someone looking for a relationship that lasts.
  
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So you were asked and said that you don't mind.
Why are you asking us if you don't mind it? The obvious answer would be nothing if that's the case.
Or perhaps the next time when a guy asks you, you should be honest about your own feelings?

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Quite while you are ahead, he's not interested in you, he may be interested in the other girl.
Re-evaluate whom you are... what I read below is messed up... in my world.

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HelpfulWoman Follow
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end the date and leave it. obviously.
unless you're into men with no morals. then i guess continue.

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gayesblog Follow
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You didn't give any details but did something like that happen? Or just an assumption?

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  No I said he could dance with her as they both knew the lyrics to the same song then they kissed on the lips
  
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Dkc123 Follow
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Continue with the date... see how it goes.. not all dates lead to romantic relationships some can lead to just friendships as well!

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  He texted me apologising and blaming it on the liquor
  
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"If your date kisses another.. you shall leave him for his brother"

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It depends on who she kissed, what kind of kiss it was, was there any tongue involved? How big is the other guy might give you pause too.

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Hope she's leaving with him, because she's not with me.

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That's disgusting. Just say "eww" and walk away. Maybe say out loud "really you're kissing your sister" and leave.

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RedInnocent68 Follow
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Ouch! I’d have walked out… Come to think of it, I’ve been walked out on for much less 😂

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Hellraiser1984 Follow
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Kick him in the balls! And tell people he's a rapist.

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Clobber both of them over the head and find another date

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On the lips on the cheek what

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  Lips
  
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Find another date

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Jkgordon Follow
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Leave I had similar years ago I dumped him

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Leave and don't reply to him at all

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  He asked if I minded if he kissed her and I said I don’t care because he was prob gonna do it anyway … he’s still texting me trying to apologise but he blatantly kissed her on the lips
  
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- balyai
  
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  Block him simple
  
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Who was it and what kind of kiss was it?

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  A stranger he was dancing with and they kissed on the lips lol
  
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  That's not really cool. How old are you both?
  
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Leave and never look back

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spartan55 Follow
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End the date.

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  He’s texting me trying to apologise and blaming it on the liquor smh…
  
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- spartan55
  
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  Really? You should laugh at him, such bullshit.
  
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- spartan55
  
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  Why are you even still talking to him?
  
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Just leave.

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Anonymous
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blow the bartender in front of your date

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Anonymous
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Then you kiss someone else in front of him...

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Ironic_Method Follow
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Leave?

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Staximus Follow
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Leave

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Find a new date.

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LEAVE

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