What does it mean when guy cancelles first date?

[Anonymous]

He said he was sick but…

[Astarlessnightsky]

He doesn't want to infect you as well? He just wants to drink tea and sleep, and avoid the cold harsh outside world while his head is filled with slime and muccus.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

He is not feeling well. Did he reschedule?

[Asker]

He said let's postpone dinner to another time.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Check in with him later this week, then determine if his claim of illness is valid

[_Maya_]

You're joking right? He said he was sick and you are questioning why he cancelled the date. Well that is why genius. Why in the hell would he want to go on a date when he isn't feeling well? Would you? Would you wanna go out with someone that is sick so that you possibly could come down with it too? What sorta fun would it be? I find it really hard to believe that you could possibly be in your mid forties and ask this question. Unreal.

[Asker]

I asked this question because this would have been our first date and im wondering do people use sickness excuse to cancel date?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think some guys might doubt their initial desire to correspond with you because their are gaps in their level of trust towards you so if you are sure your intentions are good, give them the space and time to rebuild their trust in your romantic feasibility and they will re-approach you with new vigour at some soon and later stand point.

[CatVader]

If it worries you so much
try and find out if he is genuinely sick or if it was just an excuse.
do you have any common contacts, social media?

if it was an excuse, well. he probably isn't that much into you.
and if genuine, be compassionate.. IG

[236color]

As a guy, if I'm given what I think MIGHT be an excuse, I will try one more time. She might be sick, have to take her mom to the hospital or whatever. If I'm give a second excuse, I take the hint.

[serious]

If he was actually sick then it is understandable.

[tzdc21]

Well maybe he really was. Check back up on him after a little while, and if he ghosts you then now you know the real truth.

[Jdodkfndosn]

He was nervous is the biggest reason other than he secured a date with someone he seemed better

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If you're not excusing him because he is sick then he deserves someone better.

[spartan55]

Did he seem sincere? Did he offer to reschedule?

[Asker]

He said let's postpone dinner to another time. He said he is sorry.

[spartan55]

I wouldn't bother. Whenever I have cancelled for a legit reason I reschedule on the spot. That's because I really wanted to go, but couldn't. See what I'm sayin?

[Asker]

is it ok to ask him is he feeling any better? Or do i wait his reschedule?

[spartan55]

Is this a first date?

[Asker]

yes it is.

[Asker]

what is your opinion?

[spartan55]

If it were me I'd move on.

[YesterdaysChild]

He got cold feet it seems to me.

[In_Trance]

He's not interested

[Asker]

why even bother to initiate date then?

[Jdodkfndosn]

Validation. Verify he can still get a date
It's like someone who interviews for practice even if they are not actively seeking a new job. Practice

[Asker]

@Jdodkfndosn so he is not really interested in me?