Guy canceled our first date?

[Anonymous]

so I’ve been talking to this one guy I met on tinder around 2 weeks ago and we made plans to go out for this weekend so I’m getting ready etc he tells around an 1hr 45 mins he has bad news etc I’ll insert pics he says his license got suspended and sends me a letter to prove that letter says sep1 and yesterday was sep25 and it was a Sunday but he insisted that he got it yesterday and continues asking me to go out Thursday im just kinda disappointed cuz I was looking forward to it and he seemed so excited lol to meet up and now this bs shoul I give him another chance or no plus please look at the pics to get a better idea is he being honest?

[idkwhatsreal]

I dono could be real. Is that the whole picture it’s weird that he cut it off right there. Kinda seems like you will be picking him up and then also Paying for dinner. If that’s what you were planning. I don’t know. I wouldn’t do it. But if you like him go ahead, good luck

[Asker]

He was supposed to pick me up and he still wants to but he’s saying he wants to go out Thursday night lol I believe this situation but I don't know if I should give him another chance

[SomewhereElse]

I don't know if he is being honest or not, but I'd consider that a bullet dodged. He just showed you how irresponsible he is.

[Asker]

Exactlyyyyyy so annoying I would never do that to my date

[SomewhereElse]

that's the least worrying part! Not paying a ticket to the point that he misses a court date? He must have received a good 3-4 letters prior to this one, if not even more. Who knows what other skeletons this guy has in his closet

[Asker]

I’m deaddd Lmaoooo 😭😭😭😂😂😂

[Asker]

Not only that he’s like I swear I totally forgot about that it’s been too long like what

[Asker]

Otherwise he really seemed to have his shit together I don't know what all this was

[SomewhereElse]

yeah, it's really wild! Sometimes the crazy comes out late I guess.

[Anonymous]

Definitely seems honest, but doesn't exactly seem very responsible...

[Asker]

That’s the thing he’s very responsible otherwise lol I don’t wanna be a typical toxic feminist and assume bad things about a guy I really like him do you think he’s worthy of another chance

[Opinion Owner]

That's not really up to me. I'd be biased anyway because I'm pretty irresponsible myself sometimes lol. Let my registration lapse for 2 years once. Luckily I never got a ticket

[Asker]

😭💙I’m happy to hear you got luckyyyy

[Anonymous]

I say give him one more chance, but nothing beyond that.

[Johnkandath]

I kinda think he’s playing hard to get🧐

[Asker]

If he is then this is just a turn off lol but he did prove he was in real trouble with the letter no?

[Asker]

And plus he’s the one who asked to see me in the first place does it still mean he’s playing hard to get 😩