(1) If he used this as an excuse, then he is a real jerk or he REALLY wanted to get out of the date.
(2) Regardless of whether he used this as an excuse, I am baffled at how selfish you are. Rather than worry about his accident, you are posting on this app worrying about "me my feelings me our date me me me"
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I say bullshit... ... If that was me I'd send you a picture of the accident... and I think anyone would do the same just because... for one to avoid doubt and 2 it's just natural given that sending pictures takes a literally 2 seconds
Ask how he is. Naturally if he is interested then when he gets things out of the crises mode then he will reschedule the date. If he doesn't then you have your answer but give it some time. Don't doubt him as he will be expecting some concern on your part.
I dont think anyone would lie about a serious matter like death, traffic accident etc to flake on a date. He would simply not show up, which is much easier choice instead of creating big lie like this. I would believe and give one more chance.
I would say , unless he is known to be a liar , he got in a car wreck.
Ask about him and if he's ok , reschedule. Don't read into this. You are acting insecure.
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That seems like too big of a lie just to flake on a date. You should give him the benefit of the doubt rescedual your date. If he cancelles again then forget him
Lol so you're basically assuming that he just flaked after he said he got into a car wreck. The first thing I'd be conceded about if I really liked this guy would be his safety. That selfishness probably turned him off tbh. But if he does give you another chance, I wouldn't take it for granted 😉
Give him the benefit of the doubt... or don't, it's up to you really
Haha this happened to me I didn't believe her and she sent picks then said i was a dick for not asking if she was okay lmao i still don't believe her though anyone can pull pics of their same car in an accident offline and she was kinda weird anyway and come to find out had a boyfriend the whole time
... well he says he got into a crash but honestly I've had guys use lies like this before to cancel. So I don't know what to believe TBH.
It's possible he's telling the truth. If you're that into him, let him reschedule and hope for the best.
If he flakes again, only then would I say it is safe to assume he's messing you aroundHe had a car crash and your not even asking him if he got hurt wow
Just give him the chance to reschedule! That sounds like a legit reason to take a rain check.
Give him the benefit of the doubt. I have legitlly had Shit happen when I was on the way to a date or something. It sucks. Ask him when he would like to reschedule.
wow how selfish can you get?
no i mean YOU
he was in a CAR ACCIDENTMaybe some personal problem came up. Maybe he's got wife /GF and problems happened. Maybe, maybe etc. etc.
Get over yourself and try being a little concerned about his situation. If you really don't believe him set up another date and ask him to show you the damage.
Because he got nervous as fuck, and crashed the car into something. Not a dress revenge.
He just told you why he cancelled. You should give him the benefit of the doubt.
It's possible it's not about you... Just putting it out there.
Go on the next date. It's no big deal really.
Why? Probably because he got into a car accident
Where's the part where you asked him if he was ok?
something came up? or cold feet? just ask him
Seems unlikely that he’d cancel deliberately
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