He has anxiety and I get sad when he doesn’t speak much to me. He then apologises even everyday? Am I important to him?

[Algerianprincess]

[HollyK21]

The high cortisol levels, being sick, having panic attacks, anxiety, somehow all of this is affecting how often he can correspond with you. I’m not going to call him a liar, but it sounds like a lot of excuses to make up for not doing his part.


By how often you post about this man (and there’s no problem with that at all, I just checked your page to look for context before commenting) he’s not doing much to alleviate your concerns, live up to your expectations and really just not being a great boyfriend I’m general.


Some men are great guys but just suck at relationships, and this sounds like it may be the case for your partner. He’s inconsistent, and it shows with how in the beginning he was so attentive and on point, and now he’s starting to fall off. It’s so typical with some men, that’s why dating is trial and error to finding the right guy. I also think it’s important to be able to walk away from something when it no longer serves you. I think you’ve gained strong feelings if not love for the guy, and probably worry about losing him. My biggest advice is not to lose yourself in the process, that means depriving yourself of things you know you need from a partner, like more communication and actions that shows he cares. Reassurance, effort and not disappointments, all things you need.

[Mahitoo]

You're the best thing in his life.