Guys,💪 how can a girl 🎀 know which guy genuinely likes her 🤩 and which guy is only lusting 🥵 if both guys are showing interest? Examples below?

[Radiate143]

I don't mean a love triangle but a situation where two guys who know each other like the same girl.

Guy One:

• Never says hi
• Always checking to see the girl is looking at him but never makes a move
• Stares and watches from afar
• Talks about her with friends in front of her face but still never talks
• Will switch between staring and ignoring
• Can't really look her in the eye

Guy Two:

• Always give warm genuine smiles
• Always says hi, never hot and cold
• Does small nice things
• Flirts via eye contact but never stares without smiling
• Always looks for her in a crowded room
• Gets a little nervous.

Where are my Big Brothers? Guys, if you had a sister (or have) which guy would you pick for her?

*There's a poll but OPINIONS PLEASE! 😘

Not these guys but you know.

Guy One

Guy Two

[Lionman95]

Guy two for sure but I don't think it's realistic to expect a guy to never stare and never be hot and cold. But I would say generally go for a guy that also does small things that not directly benefit him, go for a guy that's interested in a mutual relationship that not only pursues you but also let's you be part of his life. If a guy keeps distant and isn't interested in small things like birthday, things you like as for instance favourite food, colour, hobbies he's likely not interested in anything deeper.

[Radiate143]

Stare but not glare. Hot and cold, no. The first smack of inconsistency, I'm out.

[Yannae]

You know by actually getting to know them. You can't rush relationships unless you want to increase your chances on failing.

[Radiate143]

If it wasn't obvious, which option is the better one to explore.

[Yannae]

I did take a look at it. And there is little info on the both of them. So I would just get to know them and fill out that list on valuable traits.

[Radiate143]

That's a lot of info.

[Yannae]

It is some info but not enough for me to determine whether or not somebody would make a good long term partner.

[Radiate143]

The question doesn't ask that. It just asks who is more likely to have a more than sexual interest.

[Yannae]

I know. And that question can honestly just be answered with time, by getting to know them. That's why you need to get to know them to really find out. All I gather from the given info is that guy 1 is more shy than guy 2.
Just sexual interest is but short term. More than sexual interest can bloom into something longterm.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'll go with guy 2 because at least he's interacting with her.

[Radiate143]

I agree.

[Billlewis]

Guy number two, because he gets nervous.

[Radiate143]

The nerves have it 🥴

[Billlewis]

And I don't blame him -- if I were pursuing you, I'd be nervous, too!

[Radiate143]

Looool!

[Anonymous]

Oh goodness. These are not signs to desperately look for if a guy is interested. These things are 6th grade shit. Thats nothing. So sick of people thinking its something because of stupid shit.

[Radiate143]

Wow, girls a really bitchy on this site.