My boyfriend said I was the hardest to get?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend said i was the hardest of the girls he ever had

In a sense i was really hard to get. Said im difficult. He got desperate and didn't know how to come up to me

Was surprised every trick didn't work on me. Said its first time in his life girl didn't respond to his approches and ignored him.

Meanwhile for me it was the first time a guy was this persistent. Generally when i ignored or told to F off they did... and this one didn't. Never happened before.

So the question is: is it even good or bad sign this happened to us both and what it means

[RoseySarah]

Very bad sign sounds now like he has you he won't put in any effort!

He is done with chasing you!

Also just kinda admitted he just wants you cause you were a challenge

[Asker]

He says he likes me

[RoseySarah]

Yeah but after that? Does he want more or just girlfriend fo a year then into another

[Asker]

Well we ve been together for 2 years and 7 month now
We dont live together
We live in different towns
We see each other 1 o 2 times a week
And talk on phone everyday

[RoseySarah]

Aw well guess I was wrong but I hope he is still attracted to you!
Why not out that in your question?
Make it sound like a new relationship

[Asker]

sorry
yeah i see that now

[RoseySarah]

That kinda sounds sweet but also hope he says your pretty too

[Asker]

oh did yes
now we are in crisi but yeah he said kind things

[RoseySarah]

Now in where?

[Asker]

crisis
he has drug problems
i avoid him
he is not good in his head at the moment
he needs a doctor
hopefully tomorrow, as he promised, he is going to see his doc

[RoseySarah]

So sorry yeah he better or just a oid him and slowly ghost him.

He won't ever be himself again the drugs will take over and rule him if he won't get help!

Being a nurse I see it sadly so much!

Their hearts leave them and just belong to drugs nothing his family or amazing girlfriend who holds on to him can do to help

[RoseySarah]

Here is a big hug your doing amazing

[Asker]

thanks
its really hard for me
he is doing very heavy things he has paranoia hysteria convulsions sometiems
its scary
we decided give us a time
but im constantly worried
past 3,4 days were ok, we were chatting whole day
today he disappered again
i suspect didn't go to work again
he didn't answer my messages and last time was seen online yesterday at 9p. m.
im tired being stressed, so very tired
we agreed to spend following weekend at my home
i dont know how that gonna work

[RoseySarah]

Hope it works but I hope he sees the doctor!

This is such a stress on you while he is losing his mind to drugs! He is happy high while your going through so much!

[Anonymous]

Honestly doesn’t sound good. Sounds more like he was just trying to prove to himself that he could get to you. Women are are complicated, hard to get at as you describe yourself are usually a no go. I doubt this relationship will last.

[Asker]

Well
Why he is with me then
We together for 2,7 years
We meet 2 times per week nore or less
Talk everyday

[Monalisa77]

I was thinking about this earlier. Tbh kinda like this atm im tempted to see how far he would go but is that cruel?

[Asker]

Why its cruel?

[Monalisa77]

Well what if theyve shown they really do like u and u like them just keeping them going seems like its hurting them

[Asker]

How is this hurting him
He ca leave me anyday if he wants
I won't cry

[Anonymous]

He had to marry me to get me.