My boyfriend commented that all the girls in the club we recently went to were hot, now I feel insecure going out with him to the club again?

[Anonymous]

I feel like he’ll just be looking at the other girls. Am I overreacting here?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ouch, that's harsh. I can see why that comment would rub you the wrong way and make you feel awkward going clubbing with him again.

I mean on one hand, y'all are together so checking out other chicks is kinda disrespectful, ya feel? Like save that for when you're single.

At the same time, I guess most guys do glance - it's human nature. But openly pointing it out to your girl is just dumb. What did he expect you to say, "haha good one babe!" ? Come on now.

Honestly, if it were me, I'd have a chat with him and just say how his comment made you feel insecure and uneasy. See how he reacts - does he dismiss your feelings or actually listen and apologize?

If he listens, maybe give him another chance. But lay down some ground rules like keep compliments between just the two of you from now on. If he's still defensive, it's up to you if you think he can change or if he'll keep making you feel crummy.

Don't put up with disrespect though - you deserve better than that. Keep us posted on what you decide, hope it all works out alright!

[OlderAndWiser]

The last time you went to that club. . . who did he go home with?

[RedInnocent68]

Probably. How did he bring it up? Were any of the guys decent?

[jahaims]

There are people who are more attractive than you. Try living in the real world.

[Jmmmfi4]

LOOKING ISN'T A BIG DEAL. DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING.