Is my boyfriend jealous about me going clubbing?

[Anonymous]

I asked me boyfriend if it was okay for him that I go clubbing with my girlfriends and he said of course you can, but then he started asking me how my girl friends are like, how old are they. Then started asking me where exactly is the club and I told him I don’t know the name yet since we are just planning, he searched for clubs in the area screenshot the map. Then he said that wants to come with me? Is this a sign of jealousy or is it normal?

[btbc92]

Not jealousy, but he doesn't trust your friends, or where your going and doesn't want to see you hurt or do something stupid. I personally don't believe in going out clubbing, and I would not date a person who believes in going to clubs. Let alone somebody who goes to clubs. Over all he cares about your safety, he's concerned about what type of friends you got in case they want to be a bad influence in your life and makes you cheat on him, etc. In a sense he doesn't necessarily trust your actions, but he doesn't trust your friends more. He is not jealous. He is concerned and his intuition tells him to watch you. That's a man who cares and loves you.

[Jenom]

Likely he's just being protective. Clubs are havens for sleazy guys so he probs doesn't want you to be hit on. He might be concerned your friends are single too.

[spartan55]

More like a sign he doesn't trust you. Red 🚩 flag...