How do I make my boyfriend more protective?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys. So there was a similar question like this on this website but with disappointing responses. My boyfriend is very masculine, he's an alpha male and it's so sexy. However I am a pretty attractive girl and when we go out and I get hit on, he doesn't even care about it. I love that this means he's secure but it makes me feel a little... unappreciated? Kinda like I'm left on my own? The previous thread suggested horrible manipulative things to make a boyfriend more protective by making him jealous, telling him you are going out with your guy friends, drop hints that there's a guy friend who wants to sleep with you, etc... But all that is so immature and I will never want to manipulate him and build up insecurities for him, let alone make him jealous! No, I deeply respect this guy. However I really just want to feel like I finally have someone to protect me from unwanted attention, at least at bars or clubs. I can definitely handle it on my own, but it would feel nice if he showed some form of protective care. My ego is way too big to tell him 'I want you to be more protective of me', coz that's so lame and pretty archaic, plus over-protective guys are a turn off. How do I go about this? What are the things I can do to invoke some of his so called 'protective instinct'? I just want to feel a little more warmth and security.

[Shane_B]

Do you want him to knock out every guy who appraoches you?
Thats not protective, thats stupid.

If a guy was to touch you and he didn't like what he saw, then he can do whatever to the guy.

But if he feels you ain't in any danger.
He doesn't really need to next to you all the time.

He'll only get involved if another guy was to touches you sexually or innapropiately, or if you was to call him because another guy was making you uncomfortable, then he has to protect you.

But if guys are hitting on you, walk away and ignore them. Or just point out 'Your man' and most likely back away if they are intimidated by him if you say he's masculine.

[Patriot357]

Exactly

[Asker]

@Patriot357 No I don't want him to knock out every bloody guy that hits on me. We both know that that is fucked up! In my post I said 'little more warmth and security', not that I want him to become some sorta body guard that beats up everyone who looks at me for a moment longer. I also said 'I can handle it on my own', which he knows about - im glad that he respects that I can take care of myself and I respect that he respects that.

Its the little things that are missing from me feeling like I am safe with him. I don't feel a little safer with him around whatsoever. I am safe in general but I want that 'warm and protected' feeling of security. Just the FEELING of it, which I am completely deprived of.

[HeAintMe]

He's not as alpha as you think he is and being protective isn't a skill that can be learned, some men are born protective and don't put with another man looking at their woman, whereas some men are born in a way that they like watching other men fuck their woman.
That's just how you're born, you can't make him something he isn't.

[RAJESH28]

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[Anonymous]

If you don't like his personality, don't date him