How to make my boyfriend more protective?

[Anonymous]

I might sound really bad for saying that but I was wondering how to make a guy jealous/more protective? The reason being is that I always feel as if he takes me for granted and doesn't care at all...?

[youliveandyoulearn]

Well first off the anonymous guy is right, don't be manipulative but if he doesn't treat you right like you want him too then act like you have plans with other guys, tell him you're going to the movies with a group of guys. If he's taking you for granted, you should really talk to him, but if you take the "hanging out with guys" thing more than being with him, he's gonna hate you and will break up with you, I am warning you now, think before you do.

[xoelitebabiixo]

i feel the same way. umm I suggest blowing him off more make him feel like he has to work for your time. and I use a guilt trip sometimes like if he says something rude or mean to me.

[Anonymous]

Stop being a manipulative bitch...Christ we men have enough to deal with as it is.

[sexyitalian44]

wow way to be an ass. she said she feels like he takes her for granted? she just need some reassurance

[Opinion Owner]

No she's jealous that he has somewhat of a life and wants to know how she can manipulate him into feeling jealous ( making him feel insecure just like she is ) so he will do what she wants him to. instead of talking to him upfront. Its stupid games like this is why men don't take woman serious anymore

[Killfest400]

I'm definitely agreeing with this guy. If the problem is "I feel like I'm being taken for granted", then making him jealous is just a bitch move for attention. If you are being taken for granted, then you have relationship problems that need to be worked out, not cause new ones because you feed off of the drama.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you. Drama just makes more problems

[Needascreenname]

Totally agree with the Answerer and Killfest400...instead of playing games, how about you resolve the issue at hand. Try, oh, I don't know...talking to him about how you feel? Instead of playing games and manipulating him into feeling the same way as you, insecure.

[ChevyLuv]

i've been there b4 but then one of my guy friends did me a favor and started fake flirtin with me and it drove my boyfriend nuts and that's how I found out... but my friend was flirtin kinda hard.