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Is it normal to feel uncomfortable about your boyfriend going clubbing without you?

Anonymous
I went clubbing the other weekend just with my own friends and ended up leaving feeling absolutely horrible. It seemed like a singles haven and I felt completely out of place. All night I was inundated by guys wanting my number or wanting to buy me drinks and it made me uncomfortable as hell. After that experience it’s now made me concerned for when my boyfriend goes out by himself because I just don’t feel that’s the atmosphere for people in monogamous relationships to be in (unless they’re together on the night.) of course I want him to have his freedom and go out and do what he wants with his friends but I can help but feel deeply uncomfortable by the whole atmosphere. The fact he’s so keen on being in that highly alcoholic, girls with no clothes on atmosphere also concerns me. I’m not so much the clubbing type myself and only got dragged out last occasion for a friends birthday!
Is it normal to feel uncomfortable about your boyfriend going clubbing without you?
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