How would you feel if you like a girl and you know for a fact, you are not her type?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I wonder, because My friend told me the other day, that he knows what my type is and if he could, he would change himself into that just to prove me that he knows exactly what type I have.

I don’t think he likes me but it made me feel a bit sad that he thinks he’s not my type. Well, he’s not.

But I wouldn’t like people to feel undesirable by my side. But I guess it’s good for our friendship that we are not each other’s types.

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+1 y

Not going to lie, I think types are not that important. I fell for someone who wasn’t my type at all. So, I think having type doesn’t mean you want fall for someone who’s not your type.

[Harness]

Her type. You really know her type, you say... How can you know her type when she herself doesn't know what she wants?
The truth being no one really know what they want until they see it... if this wasn't the case many marriages will not go to shambles upon the arrival of a third party... pardon my use of a very offensive example. The point is she doesn't know her type, YOU donot know her type or his type -if male... perhaps she or he thinks they do... You just be confident and be yourself, take the initiative... if it works out, then great... if not, then their loss... never undersell yourself...

[love_conquers_lust]

It sucks.

That silhouette in your photo reminds me of Jessica Rabbit from Who Framed Roger Rabbit

https://pin.it/4iFuXRN

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=B8xp-qfP1B0

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you, I guess 😂

[Guido]

People that focus on a specific type and rarely successful. One must have an open mind. When the right person comes along, you know it and they are seldom the the stereotypical type they thought was their type.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, happened to me. My ex wasn’t my type in the beginning but I fell deeply in love with him.

[AviatorTom]

Simple. If I knew that, I would find another girl.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think that’s too strict. My first love and first relationship, I have talked so much about, wasn’t my type. I didn’t have a type for Asian men, but he changed that.

He changed my type.

[AviatorTom]

@lafemmefatale_1 Trying change someone's type is generally not going to to work, and puts them in a unique situation of not knowing what they really like. I wouldn't do that to her. Let her find someone who IS her type. In your situation, you were fortunate... but it didn't last, did it?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He didn’t change my type. He was just being him and I realized he was amazing.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He broke up with me, I didn’t break up with that silly. And it didn’t last because of distance, we’d be married by now if not long distance of pandemic.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Also, I am not calling you silly. I am referring him.

[exitseven]

I really don't think that type is an etched in stone thing. I have dated girls who were different from the ones I usually dated. I enjoyed being with them and I value the time we spent together. Maybe this guy wonders if he is tall enough or good looking enough or rich enough. If it is something superficial like that maybe it is you that has the problem.

[AmeerX]

Love can be found in unlikeliest of places and with the most randome person in the world you can't even think of. It's not that he is not your type but you are both not each other's type.

I made my intentions clear unless the difference is too much especially in economic and social class. Love is blind though

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

How do you know whose type I am?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

“you are both not each other's type.“

[AmeerX]

See you take things too literally.
I don't know whose type you are. But clearly if someone says he is or she is not my type means you are rejecting them in a way. Fact is you are both not each others type
"You" I used generically. I mean to say if Someone is not my type then I am not her type. It's reciprocal, it's not like someone is better than others. Better just say if someone is not compatible

[Still-alive]

As long as i feel some kind of connection ill go out with someone who’s not my type. Its not a deal breaker for me.

[Sevenpointfive]

like 20 years ago they were called players. you didn't have to be her type as long as you knew what she wanted. the game still exists and you are playing it whether you know it or not.

[Nirmroth]

I mean sucks to know but if she's still into you I dont see how you can't try. Types change as your preference changes.

[Slim57]

That's happened before, doesn't matter, still going to try if I like her

[justabuddy]

It happens all the time, it's never the best feeling in the world. You just move on with your life.

[Tharithi]

What’s your typical type

[Anonymous]

i don't really end up with my type anyway

[jahaims]

I already assume I am not most people's type.

[Lester102]

move on.